Kaylee, I greatly enjoyed the one time I saw you while visiting Dallas just about 2 years ago. We certainly indulged your kitty cat at some length, and I do believe she purred enthusiastically.And thus why I enjoy my time with you immensely!!!
I won't see someone who isn't apparently a fan of receiving DATY. I usually tell them I'm here for as long as you want me to be, and invite them to cue me in advance or during activities whether I'm doing it right for them or not, since I've found there is a lot of variety among women on how they like it done. Hard tongue tip, soft broad tongue, back and forth, circular, sucking, fast or slow, fingers on G-spot or no fingers, finger in the rosebud, etc., etc., etc. Love it all!!!! Whatever pleases her is what I want.
My default approach, after making out for a while and then making my way down to pet the kitty is slow and gradual, soft and sensual, kissing thighs and low abdomen and all around the cat before gradually moving in to suck her labia, softly lick her clit now and then, while holding her hands or stroking her breasts, taking my time making out with her pussy, gauging when to pick up the tempo and pressure. Above all else, I've found that when my partner starts saying "Yes, Yes, Yes", or "Don't stop", that I should continue exactly what I'm doing and not see that as a signal to go harder or faster unless she gives me a verbal or non-verbal direction to do so.
Yes, I'm a bit of a romantic about all this, but I love a little PSE as well--being grabbed by the ears or hair while she bucks against my face is great. Having a squirter let go is incredible, and yes, I swallow, no quit, no spit.
As to why, I think I'm just a pleaser by nature, a little submissive, and nothing excites me more than pleasing my partner. And I've found. . .duh. . .that concentrating on her pleasure first usually results in a partner who is very enthusiastic about pleasing me--and what a great competition to have eh?
I do SO-O-O love this topic!! Originally Posted by spice-is-nice