Definitely outside the hobby, but I've had some very memorable experiences inside the hobby as well. That's why I do both.
Originally Posted by sexxytexxan
Both. I want different kinds of sex and to be honest some of it is best served up by a whore. Best sex? Outside. Best BJ? Inside. Most passion? Outside. Kinkiest stuff? Inside.
This is like asking, "where have you had the best food, at home or at a restaurant?" Well, what kind of meal are you talking about?
Best sex I've had in the last year, for example, was with various combinations of 2 out of 5, they all know each other, they all need gas money or money to fill ice box, they may very occasionally dance in a sc, but they would be horrified if they were thought of as being in the hobby.
But I can't say I'm dating them, dating is when you are monogamous, right, or looking for long term exclusivity and family life?
They all know I can party lots at night, but to come they have to be spooning me in the morning. I tell them to toss a coin to see which one will toss me.
To be honest, I struggle to even remember the very few times it's been sex on the clock. It was good, for example with KLK, but she was never a 'your hour is up' kind of girl, at least with me.
Shocking confession - number of times I have booked an hour session in my life is maybe 10. Half of them I was WTF am I doing here after 10 secs.
I'm still in shock when so many here say sex outside is better, I thought I was the only one. Group hug needed (NOT).
I hobby with my SO of over 22 years so it's always fun within the hobby with a provider, SB, strippers, lifestyle, whatever...and it's hot between the two of us outside the hobby...it's a win/win