Since when did eccie become a dating site?

I'm not against a date but he better be fine.

P.S. I don't drink so just offer me fried chicken and porn @ your place.

I thought you're an ESCORT that is PAID FOR TIME. That's what this site is all about. In a recent Austin thread (co-ed) one provider said she is asked for this fairly frequently. For some of us, the sex is only better if a sort of "chemistry" is established and that could happen through a "date". Arrangements could/can be made to ensure the "date" is discreet, such as a dinner/movie in a nearby city instead of San Antonio or the city you live in.

Lol, gents I'm not looking for a relationship believe me. I figured since she only does outcalls it would be nice to have a drink or two before we go to the hotel and of course she will be compensated for her time. Relationship! Hardly being friendly maybe. Originally Posted by Bisoy44

Honey this thread wasn't exactly directed towards you.
I mentioned already that more than once ive recieved pms from others on this matter!

I've gotten pm's that are like "wanna catch a movie" "how about dinner" "lets grab a coffee" for me, from my experience, this does not sound like someone who wants to compensate for my time!

Now I have been on multi-hour sessions where we did the drinks and chit chat and got relaxed before the actual "session"! But these men were pretty specific about booking a multi-hour session because they wanted to hang out first.

So maybe it might help to be a little more specific than the example messages I listed above!

I think you take yourself far too seriously , you don't have to accept , but also don't need to be offended either , 10 more years you'll be wondering why no one is asking you out . Enjoy your youth it flys by real quick !

Mossman she never said to socialize. I just think that if its someone who u do not know nor have ever met before its best to get comfortable in ur own enviornment so if she does not want to meet outside her standard session .. its her buisness and certainly her pu$sy .. IMO What she is stating is that someone wants to take her out and not making an appt from my understanding and its making her feels like its not a courting site. When u go out with someone and small talk can lead to 21 questions and that would prob poke into her personal life. If its something shes not comfortable with its HER choice.

I am saying this happens often more than u would know.. especially to new gals...
Now, I do sometimes meet with friends on here for fun. Under my circumstances and aknowledge if we do drinks or lunch that its for fun. . Example when I post " hey anyone wanna go to a SC or Have Happy Hour drinks" My intentions are to 1. have fun. 2 let the gents get to know my character outside the hobby session and especially if they didnt meet me at a social bc i have not been attending. Its my choice..
*When i do have time and I know the gent I am open to the option but we usually set up a date before or after and i dnt mind IF i have time* especially regular seen friends.

Bottom line everyone is different. U dont have to like it but respect it.

lots of love and hope i dont ruffle ur feathers and if i did .. Bend over and i'll spank U!!!

xoxo
lexxxi

I think this is a prime example of the importance of a well written showcase.

i call BS .. its common sense. If u have never met then a hhr is too short if u want the full companion gfe. Now if ur in it to get in and get out with ur Lady friend of choice n just in the moment then hhr will do.

Most of us dnt put in our shwcase bc 2hrs and above are hardly requested.


~xo
Lex

For you ^^^^^^

Most of us dnt put in our shwcase bc 2hrs and above are hardly requested. Originally Posted by Secret Encounters

This is a BUSINESS and not a MATCHMAKING site! I do NOT want a gf or any reasonable facsimile! ! I want a nice gfe session and off to our PRIVATE lives!! These are the expectations I have.

Nova says she doesn't do this, so now we know...her position. Everyone is different. I do appreciate the ladies speaking out about such matters.

Now if you ladies would quit being so nice and approachable, we might just stop asking you out...or in.

If I understand correctly, you will take his money to be his sex toy, but it's rude if he offers you money to socialize Originally Posted by Mossman

Love, you understood incorrectly.

Now I have been on multi-hour sessions where we did the drinks and chit chat and got relaxed before the actual "session"! But these men were pretty specific about booking a multi-hour session because they wanted to hang out first. Originally Posted by Novatx

^ this explains enough

And get real sweety! What provider wouldn't want to get paid $200 for one hour just to sit around and talk? I can sit around and say anything you wanna hear! I never said I wouldn't see someone for a "warm up date" or "get to know each other first session" is there a name for it?

Lmao .. Nushi ur funny ..

Rockerrick.. yes maybe for me .. but ive been around long enough and i know what my Gents and repete gents like .. so no problem with 90 min or less sessions.
Oh and congrats on being unbanned again.. lol.. I love ur witt as does Ezra ..

xo
Lexxxi

I am going to put my 2cents here....to the opening line. This website is used for all kind of things, like bus dinner for a company , a christmas party or going out to dinner with a client . I am sorry but part of the this job is all about..

Yes , everybody hobby before they get married men and women and I rather have an honest in my pvt life than dumb to lie to my boyfriend or hubby.

Thanks Lexxxi , probably be short lived . And both you and Ezra are quite witty as well !

I agree with Nushi everyone is different , and I have been out with providers before .

Foxy does that mean you're gonna go out with me


Back on subject before the policeman comes out .

Novatx now that your position has been expressed , hopefully you won't be bothered again . But it does happen more than you think , not always initiated by the guy . Can you really blame a guy for trying ? I can't believe someone would do that without ever meeting you before though . That does seem a little strange . But sometimes you meet someone and click on a personal level . You can't really control who you meet and click with , no doubt in the hobby chances are it is not going to work.