Question for the Guys

Never... I think I have at best one person I could talk to about this hobby, and maybe get him involved, but this is my secret life. Too much to lose.
I'm soooooo glad to hear that most of you keep this life to yourself. I had a big scare recently and almost quit!! Thank you for responding.
NEVER! NEVER! NEVER! Getting caught is not an option w/ me. A few cold beers, a cigarette, oh shit did you know....... If they are friends w/ your friends that don't know about you....too much risk!
Always play safe.
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I am asking a serious question out of curiosity and concern. Do you guys talk about the fact that you 'hobby' to your civilian guy friends?
During screening, a few times I have run into some guys who has some kind of connection to my civilian life and I've been turning them down in fear that they will talk about it with their friends and out me.
I am VERY VERY discreet and keep info to myself and will bring it to the grave with me...but I can't make everyone do the same. I'm not sure if I will get anyone willing to honestly answer the question. If I don't get any response, it's ok...it will just be a blank thread I guess. Originally Posted by samantha thom
I never do.
Umm nope. I have a buddy who slipped and told one friend ad now our wife's won't let us hangout with him.
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  • jafun
  • 05-29-2013, 08:24 AM
NEVER!
Well I discuss it with my wife and kids. They give me great tips and advice. The wife holds two jobs so she can pay this for me...even my Pastor, Father Rod brings it up in sermons every now and then. I stand with him at the pulpit for a little Q&A with the congregation, most of whom are cops.

What a great life I have...!
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Don't let the kids lead you astray.
Actually, I never discuss my sex life, or lack of sex life, with friends. They rarely discuss their sex life. I do not boink their wives and girlfriends so it comes down its none of their business. Originally Posted by pyramider
You do realize this is your second reply (in the same hour) to this thread/question? Similar answer so that shows promise.

Just checking because I hope to one day join the 18,000 mindless posts club.
NO WAY IN HELL
I use Twitter.
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Absolutely NOT. This is a temporary fantasy in my mind & I don't want it exposed or explained.
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  • L.A.
  • 05-29-2013, 09:08 AM
I don't have any friends.
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I think we killed this one. There is way too much at stake to be discussing this with anyone. I don't even like talking about these activities with the providers I see. There is only 1 that I see on a regular basis that I would talk with...
Nope...one of my buddies talks about his extramarital adventures. I listen, tell him to stop telling people about it and picture his hot wife naked while she sucks my cock and thanks me for burying her ex-husband in court.