I wish men were more truly passionate...

Maybe you should visit Houston sometime

They claim to want passion, to reclaim the missing passion in their personal lives, yet when faced and handed the opportunity, I have observed they have no clue what to do with it

Anywhoo, back to lack of passion. I'm curious if it's the nervousness, anxiety, insecurity ...or what that makes a man freeze when it comes to the stage where you can let yourself go....yet when the time comes, they are like fragile sedate ninnies; conservative housewives

Disappointment after disapointment

So what then is passionate sex/love-making?

Being consciously aware. Being present. Being in the moment

Not thinking of what's going on at work, at home, comparing experiences to the past, daydreaming about some remote event in the future, anywhere outside the vicinity of two people engaged intimately

No expectations of "performance", self-conscious thoughts of how you look, no planned out step by step scheme

Just in the moment - natural flow

Basically what defines a passionate individual and a living zombie is just that. Awareness. Are you fully conscious, aware and sensitive to yourself and the other person, or are you there half-way? Are you even there at all, except physically? Hello! Where Are YOU?! Here is life. Wake up. Feel. Respond. React. DO Something.

Originally Posted by Zabrina Sarafina

You are starting to sound more and more like my wife!!

Auggggghhhhhhhhhhhhhh ... Run for it ... Hide....

Maybe you're just hanging out with the wrong type of man or perhaps just being too aggressive.

Personally, I love passion too, but there is no magic switch that we can flip to make it happen on demand.

Sometimes, life throws us obstacles that we must deal with before we can focus even on the delightful pleasures of a sexy provider.

There are certain stages that you must go through to get in the proper frame of mind. Being comfortable with the other person is the first requirement. Maybe you just need to create the right environment to allow it to happen rather than snapping your fingers and expecting the man to be in the zone immediately.

. . . I think you just need a strong man to ravish you and you haven't found him yet. I may have to fix that deficiency myself, but I can be such a beast!

Not enough passion????
You're smoking @#$%^ and hanging around the wrong threads.
Passion thy name is Kusmaldo who reminds you to "put the fucking lotion in the basket" every night.
Or FG (sorry buddy; didn't see you) who gives Kusmaldo a run for his money.

And you're welcome.

Thank you to all the real gentlemen who reached out to me on here ...as well as private. Looks like time is arriving when I'll be spreading my wings ....and doing some exploration

Spreading your wings?

. . . That is vague enough to mean anything. What does it mean?

... What does it mean? Originally Posted by Fast Gunn

The remedial class is down the hall on the left. And yes, you can play with the colors there.

Spreading your wings?

. . . That is vague enough to mean anything. What does it mean?
Originally Posted by Fast Gunn

We have to meet sometime. Two hours ....would that be enough?

I've been thinking the same thing.

. . . Maybe not enough time to do you full justice, but time enough to get the fire burning and your juices flowing! Let's take this back stage, Z!

We have to meet sometime. Two hours ....would that be enough? Originally Posted by Zabrina Sarafina

Spreading your wings?

. . . That is vague enough to mean anything. What does it mean?
Originally Posted by Fast Gunn

We have to meet sometime. Two hours ....would that be enough? Originally Posted by Zabrina Sarafina

Never mind.......You 2 were made for each other....

Never mind.......You 2 deserve each other.... Originally Posted by Ed Highlight

This is more what went through my mind. What's the worst that can happen? I just hope we get more threads out of it.

Oh happiness.

I think you need to book engagements with different clients! I've had my fair share of dead fish, but usually, my "work" dates show me more passion than my previous SO!

Thats a huge issue with the bizz and me personally though, I've become addicted to the feeling of being the sole and absolute center of a mans carnal attentions.. Nothing less than every drop will do now.. I adore feeling the tension building, and knowing that he has ONE thing on his mind, and I'm in control of how to exploit and manipulate it until he's bonkers. Some guys need a little coaxing just because it's an odd situation, and they are a little timid, but it's in no short supply. Hell, from my experience, I have to tone my gent back a bit so he doesn't finish before I'm ready for him to!

It is hard to be passionate with a woman you just met. That happens after a few visits.

There some exceptions. Like Calista said we need a little coaxing sometimes.