Should this really be able to continue....?

Uh... Nova.. I love your pants girl! Oh crap, that wasn't relevant.

Um, pm or text me for references any time. I'll try to get back to you ASAP, usually within a few hours.

Now back to the money honeys!

Damn this is some good popcorn

I always thought that is the purpose of providing a provider with a a few recent provider names we've seen so y'all can check with each other --should I be asking a provider if I can use her as a reference?

I have been asked by a few guys to use me as a reference.... but more use me as a reference without asking... which I don't mind... either way... I'd rather help that girl out... even if it is just a little....

Dakota, check your PM's

It is common courtesy and common sense to ask a provider about using her as a reference before you inform other providers that she is your reference. Never assume that just because you visited her that she will be your reference without her knowledge and permission.

How a provider conducts her screening or otherwise runs her business is exactly that. Her business.

Guys, if you wish to use a provider as a reference please be sure that she is willing to be your reference first.

Ladies, if a guy refers you to a provider who does not give references then inform him that he is just going to have to get a reference from a provider who is willing to be his reference.

What he just said

It is common courtesy and common sense to ask a provider about using her as a reference before you inform other providers that she is your reference. Never assume that just because you visited her that she will be your reference without her knowledge and permission.

How a provider conducts her screening or otherwise runs her business is exactly that. Her business.

Guys, if you wish to use a provider as a reference please be sure that she is willing to be your reference first.

Ladies, if a guy refers to a provider who does not give references then inform him that he is just going to have to get a reference from a provider who is willing to be his reference.

Well said Mokoa....people take things for granted and forget ask permission.

I concur completely. I've found that most providers are happy to provide a reference, but it is always best to ask if it's ok to use them as a reference, just as one would when applying for a job. As Mokoa said, it's just common courtesy....

What Mokoa said is correct. This could have been avoided by the hobbyist asking Vinny if he could use her as a reference.

It is important to check because some providers don't like vouching for guys. Also, some have a preferred method of contact for reference requests, etc. It's always better to ask.

It is common courtesy and common sense to ask a provider about using her as a reference before you inform other providers that she is your reference. Never assume that just because you visited her that she will be your reference without her knowledge and permission.

How a provider conducts her screening or otherwise runs her business is exactly that. Originally Posted by Mokoa

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How a provider conducts her screening or otherwise runs her business is exactly that.

Thank you