The Discussion Of Menu or Services Provided On This Board

wait....what???

i thought everything on eccie was a "fictional account for fantasy and entertainment purposes only..."

I'm a kind of lay it out there person as well. Don't like lying or hiding. It is what it is kind of attitude. The duality many have a need to subscribe to in this hobby was something very foreign to me personally, but I understood the needs others had for it. However, as with anything, one evolves through experience and their capability to comprehend all aspects and possible repercussions of decisions made in this lifestyle. The need to keep things simple and upfront isn't quite as easy a task as one might think, especially upon learning all that actually should be considered and has been debated(nearly to death at times...LOL) on a board of this nature.

I see you're join date as March of this year. It will be interesting to know and see how your perspective and views change about many topics in the hobby. Of course, I have this insatiable need to know everything about this, and many other, situations and things that affect me and those around me, including my job. (I hate to call what I do a job, but hey, it is. Just a really fun one at times!) So, while I understand you may believe that you may never change your stance or your views as I, and multitudes of others have about certain things here, my perceptions and experiences indicate there are not many who can maintain all their original views and perceptions. No matter how stubborn they may be or how "right" they believed they were at the time....LOL

As with anything, our conclusions are our own, and each will be unique and different, even if just the tiniest fraction of a degree in difference. This is because our experiences and perceptions are unique to us all. Try sitting a hobbyist and provider down, immediately after a session, and have each write an honest review. I guarantee they won't be exactly the same. How we perceive as individuals, negates this.

My point, and yes I know, it took me forever to get to it, things are not always as black and white as many of us would like them to be. Your stance that "there is no point hiding it", which I wish were as black and white as it looks, could change in time. For you, there is no point in hiding it at this time, something you learn or experience next week could change your stance on that statement. ijs

Whew....I need to break out some toys or something and try lightening the f** up this morning. LOL Anyone know a good joke? LOL Originally Posted by M A X

Yes I joined this site in March but this isn't my first rodeo. I've been doing this for 3 years and actually had another account a while back but lost my login info and made another after I was requested to by a friend. I'm as stubborn as a bull and seriously doubt my stance will change. But since me way of thinking seems to concern a lot of you, I'm backing out of yet another thread. Good day

Yes I joined this site in March but this isn't my first rodeo. I've been doing this for 3 years and actually had another account a while back but lost my login info and made another after I was requested to by a friend. I'm as stubborn as a bull and seriously doubt my stance will change. But since me way of thinking seems to concern a lot of you, I'm backing out of yet another thread. Good day Originally Posted by MaryBeth

Goodness.....I didn't mean to offend, hon. I apologize. I was simply making an observation with the info I had to work with. If nothing has changed in your eyes/opinions/perspective since you first entered the hobby 3 years ago..... Awesome. That is unusual, IMO. And that's just it. It's just my opinion. It probably only matters to me, but opinionated woman that I am, I like to share my observations and opinions on these threads from time to time. Don't run off on my account. I apologize if you thought I was being untoward. I was simply taking what you said and stating what I observed and deduced from MOST others here. Now that I know you're a vet, it won't be interesting at all to see if things change, so there ya go. Just working with what I have to go on. we kewl?

Stubborn ain't always bad....but bulls kinda scare me. I'd make a terrible matador! LOL

I'm a Taurus, I'm a bull in spirit haha. You didn't offend, I just get defensive sometimes, my apologies on that.

I'm a Taurus, I'm a bull in spirit haha. You didn't offend, I just get defensive sometimes, my apologies on that. Originally Posted by MaryBeth

I'm not surprised to know you are a Taurus. LOL And no worries!

Part of the problem is the ladies that "upsell" fetishes. I can see a review with the usual and know what to take, but if I want something extra then I have to ask so I know how much extra to take so I don't look like a cheapo who tried to get greek for only an extra 2 Jacksons.

Of course I also don't message women saying "hay bbu u wnt sum fck 160 4 our???" I try to keep it "discreet" and ambiguous enough, of course you can only be so surreptitious on a site like this where it's pretty much known what you want and are talking about.

I haven't had anyone tell me anything bad about the way I inquire about rates and services, must be doing something right.