IInteresting comments, Fancy.
A number of fellows, eh? That's good to hear. Have any of them commented on how they learned to do this? Or whether they can differentiate what will lead to a dry orgasm vs. a "messy" one LOL?
Is this something YOU enjoyed? Originally Posted by spice-is-nice
Of course I enjoyed it, silly. The female ego likes to be boosted, too, even if it isn't ALL my doing. (I at least helped.) And I actually get a lot of satisfaction seeing fellows enjoy themselves fully.
Here's a good introductory article with a book suggestion:
http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,418886,00.html
I know gents who have learned the techniques with devotion and have amazing control. For others it comes naturally, pun intended.
An interesting read on Tantric sex and multi-o's:
http://health.howstuffworks.com/sexu...dictionary.htm
Note that both these indicate a level of intimacy and patience, which usually means one understanding lover, but after this is learned, multi-o's can be had with any partner.