The common theme throughout most SB discussion is providers do not make good SB, for a variety of reasons. I am sure that would not apply to all, but most.
Originally Posted by oktome
All generalisations are false, including this one....
For providers, it is a business.
For sb's, it is about friendship, mentoring, fun, and some financial help.
Potential sb's get flooded with requests from guys who treat them like escorts - do you do this, do you do that, how much for sex, bla bla - and any proper sb puts the phone down quickly. Probably most providers would too lol!
A sb is like a gf who happens to struggle with bills and needs help. Treat her like a gf (but remember, she is not a gf) and you may have some luck.
If there is a big age difference, she will probably want to keep her private life and her sb/sd life quite separate. Do not expect to be on her facebook page, do not even expect to know what her fb name is.
If you want uncomplicated, sure thing sex, sb's are not for you. My current sb took 3 months before we had sex. 1 month before we slept together.