How to start anal

DallasRain's Avatar
I do not receive greek anymore but when I GIVE it,I use LOTS & LOTS OF LUBE/patience & start slow with finger then advanced to toys

have fun babe!
@LL I would drive to BR if that was on your menu! Originally Posted by greenninja
Oh I remember you, you sexy stud. However, Im not even sure I can accommodate you
AngeLisa's Avatar
Gregster I don't know why they freak over it either....I'm more wanting to experience things I have not before. I like new...like I tried 2wice to organize a GangBang in my town. (With no Luck.damn Flakes) I wanted all these fantasies fulfilled, on is I wanna experience anal!!

But I think LL advise and the amazon tip as well will help me get to where I wanna be.
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Hahaha I was scrolling the Internet and found this.
.......ALSO another Fear from doing anal !!!

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TiCobra's Avatar
To pick up after Lolita's advice,my ex enjoyed greek and when she wanted it that's what she would do (butt plug for about an hour to loosen up and during foreplay I would use another toy she had that was a little bigger to loosen even more...of course an enema before hand was a given too...
@TiCobra: That is the best way to do it. I do not know how many times guys have asked for anal WITHOUT asking for it before they got there. Anal takes a lot of prep time, and of course an enema.
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TiCobra's Avatar
and what Dallas said too plenty lube...your saliva or just the lube on the condom ain't enough...
TiCobra's Avatar
And LL I think we're supposed to get together sometime real soon? Hmmm.....lol
Karrine_Kream's Avatar
I dont get the chance to do anal much but I do know a bit, and I am definitely for ENEMA BUT it can be tricky sometimes, depending on the kind you get. I also suggest not eating hours prior to any anal play, to definitely prevent the pic lol

Plugs and a somewhat thick lube definitely will help. You can also get anal beginner kits a variety of things for $30-40 and I mean a variety.


YMMV with me - I use to be able to really get into it and not really hurt. I think it really depends on your partner too though. So if all else fails, do your research and be able to control the process if needed. Because I have had a guy want it and just tried to ram me. And some want it so bad they will try to do it-intentionally or not-be prepared to be a little dominant, because after-all it is your body and you are not going to want to get hurt.

I say self practice some more to get real comfortable that way it makes for a better experience for you and the guy
Old Horn Dog's Avatar
Reminds of that great scene in "The Cooler" w/Wm. Macy & Maria Bello kneeling next to each other on the bed, smacking the head-board into the wall to piss off the girl next door & Maria saying, "In the ass! In the ass!.. NO!.. MY ass!" "Oh, sorry!"
Water based lube (sliquid is my fav) and high quality silicone toys are the way to go for anal training. I avoid stuff like anal-eze because tearing can happen inside and you won't realize, which is super dangerous in a few different ways...
So...You called out a gentleman for spelling recognize incorrectly? I have so much more to say, but I have been practicing restraint.
The irony and hypocrisy on this local board is a joke.
I miss the good old days, lol!


I'm curious on how did you start anal?
Since I started fucking guys that has always been a NoNo of mines. I was taught no guy can enter. But damm I wanna try. I mean.....I've tried before and I was successful a few times. It's just 3 out of the 10 times I did it I was sussesful for a short while. Then, 5/10 times it wasn't painful. I've done toys in my ass but that's as far as I could go without whimping out.
Yes I know I don't want to do anything that HURTS me, but I really wanna be good at it. I have a real strong desire to be more open, I need help.
2. Who can help? Small packages inquire... I'll be in town next week![/QUOTE]
AngeLisa's Avatar
Update: I bought a new toy. I will be performing on myself later this evening.
Oh and some Lube!!!

Xoxo
Have fun! Lol. Lubricant is the most important part if it. Porn and playing with your clit helps make it more enjoyable as well.