the dreaded taboo subject.......

The irony in this thread kills me, you have providers who BBBJ and swallow saying how dangerous it is to bareback. You should remember HIV is not the only condition you should be afraid of, all STDs can be passed orally and then you have oral thrush. But this is safe and barebacking is oh so dangerous.... by the way I am not advocating barebacking, I just think some could lose the condesending tone.

The irony in this thread kills me, you have providers who BBBJ and swallow saying how dangerous it is to bareback. You should remember HIV is not the only condition you should be afraid of, all STDs can be passed orally and then you have oral thrush. But this is safe and barebacking is oh so dangerous.... by the way I am not advocating barebacking, I just think some could lose the condesending tone. Originally Posted by dirty dog

I know exactly what you mean. If you are going to offer bbbj you might as well just offer bbfs. There is not a difference. You can get all the same std's in your mouth that you can on your puss or dick.
Makes no sense to me.
Although I think its unhealthy to offer either both. Some people have told me I need to open my menu but I know what the risks are. I know my risks are high just being a provider, I would rather not add to that chance by offering anything without a rubber.

I have had it offered many times...so I think it happens more than most people want ti talk about.

My fear: What if I got a girl pregnant? I read a story once where that is exactly what happened. Your $250 fee suddenly changes to a few decades of child support.

I know exactly what you mean. If you are going to offer bbbj you might as well just offer bbfs. There is not a difference. You can get all the same std's in your mouth that you can on your puss or dick.
Makes no sense to me.
Although I think its unhealthy to offer either both. Some people have told me I need to open my menu but I know what the risks are. I know my risks are high just being a provider, I would rather not add to that chance by offering anything without a rubber. Originally Posted by DestinyInKC

Okay.. i don't want to have to go all nurse on ya but I can.
There is a HUGE difference in between the 2. Research is your friend.
Let me know when you hear a story from a woman catching HIV from a bbbj. I can dig up a huge number of stories where fucking without a conddom gets you HIV.
But if we are gonna have this debate did YOU know that even with a condom during sex you can get herpes!

So you telling me you dont let a lady suck your dick with out a condom?
I did my homework before I started doing bbbj. So think what you like Dirty D. All I said it would not be such a great idea.. Almost every provider dose bbbj so don't be singling people out. I dont think you even see anyone and you have so much to say about everything. I don't get it but ok.

The irony in this thread kills me, you have providers who BBBJ and swallow saying how dangerous it is to bareback. You should remember HIV is not the only condition you should be afraid of, all STDs can be passed orally and then you have oral thrush. But this is safe and barebacking is oh so dangerous.... by the way I am not advocating barebacking, I just think some could lose the condesending tone. Originally Posted by dirty dog

+ 100 THANK YOU ..People need to do there homework before running there mouth..

Okay.. i don't want to have to go all nurse on ya but I can.
There is a HUGE difference in between the 2. Research is your friend. Originally Posted by Graceutr

http://std.about.com/od/riskfactorsf...sexsafesex.htm

We all do what we are comfortable with.
I have a job in healthcare, I know what I feel comfortable with.
Sorry, don't mean to come off as a bitch, but if you want zero risk, get out of the hobby.

I agree everyone should do what they are comfortable with which is why I choose to keep a rubber on it.

The best STD protection is abstinence. I doubt anyone here is willing to practice THAT sort of safe sex.

Lol very true allie kat

First of all I did not name names so anyone getting offended is doing so on their own. Second I specifically stated that there are other things to worry about than HIV, third there is a big difference in BBBJ and BBBJ and swallow and I specifically stated the latter. In either case your still talking about receiving semen into the body.

So you telling me you dont let a lady suck your dick with out a condom?
I did my homework before I started doing bbbj. So think what you like Dirty D. All I said it would not be such a great idea.. Almost every provider dose bbbj so don't be singling people out. I dont think you even see anyone and you have so much to say about everything. I don't get it but ok. Originally Posted by SexyKaylen

Please, please, please tell me where your homework took you that stated that swallowing seman is safe. Maybe if you would take the time to read rather than to get all huffed up and reply because you feel like I was picking on you, you would see where I stated "and swallow". Who I see and when I see them is non of your business to be quite honest, and I will participate in as many threads as I like, you seem to want to make this personal, do you, because I never directed anything to your personally. I dont get you either, but ok.

Even with swallow, stomach acid is pretty knarly stuff and will kill off most everything and turn it into cum soup.

OH MY GOD PEOPLE!! I DO NOT....WILL NOT......NOR HAVE EVER DONE BAREBACK!!

I just wanted a civil conversation about it. I was just wondering what everyone thought good and bad. I don't know why anyone took from that post that that is something I do!

I want to be able to talk about things that are on my mind without being slammed