To the Providers: have you ever wonder whatever happened to that guy....

Ladies, I'm OK. No need to worry! Sorry I left you so abruptly and didn't say anything, but.......

the Cowboys suck and I just can't handle it. I need to be alone! :-(
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  • S-Man
  • 10-26-2010, 07:53 AM
If a rate increase caused you to be beyond his budget, would you want him to tell you that? If you're no longer in his range, would you still want him to stay in touch?
If a rate increase caused you to be beyond his budget, would you want him to tell you that? If you're no longer in his range, would you still want him to stay in touch? Originally Posted by S-Man
Great question!! I have had a couple of ladies I used to see on a regular basis and then they (how shall I say it) priced themselves out of my self-imposed price limit. I know that some ladies will "grandfather" their existing clients in at a former rate, but I am not one who enjoys talking $$$ issues and if the lady doesn't bring it up or post it, I am going to assume that I would be expected to meet the current donation level. So, no matter how much I enjoyed my time with the lady ... I choose to move on. If I did get a message from her asking me why I hadn't seen her, I would be happy to explain, but I'm not going to appear a haggler and initiate a message saying I miss you, can I see you for xx?
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the Cowboys suck and I just can't handle it. I need to be alone! :-( Originally Posted by ithyphallicus
I feel your pain....happy to do some mutual consoling with anyone who is in a funk over the Boys...

And back to the OP's original question...Yes. There are one or two who have disappeared that I would love to know that they are doing well.
If a rate increase caused you to be beyond his budget, would you want him to tell you that? If you're no longer in his range, would you still want him to stay in touch? Originally Posted by S-Man
This is an excellent question. I'm not a full-time hobbyist nor am I wealthy man and have on occasion had a lady I enjoy move a notch or two above what I choose to spend. I just look at it as them outgrowing me as a client... If she is curious about why I would tell her if she asked but it's not something I would ever bring up on my own.
damm this thread, got me thinkn about that one military guy......I miss him
I just look at it as them outgrowing me as a client... Originally Posted by stateofmindtx
What a great way to express it ...
...there was a guy who used the handle ShowMe on an old board...
(OOOOOOOh that was some good lovin' ....sighhhhhhhh)
Never know what happend to him ~ he was one of my "hobby firsts"
and one that I will never forget!!

Another thing that is difficult to hear is - when you've been out of the hobby for a few years & come back to find out that one of your ATF's had passed away....



GOOD THREAD!

xoxo,
ItalianaPrincess
Reminds me of a Richard Prior bit.
Richard: Bitch I'm gonna find me some new pussy!!
Girl: If you had 2 more inches of dick you'd find some new pussy right here!!

I think it's guys retire, guys just move on because they have short attention spans and need strange. Or else they would stay home and fuck their wives.
It could also be that they were outed to their SO or wife. Just sayin...
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It could also be that they were outed to their SO or wife. Just sayin... Originally Posted by midlyfecrysis51
While it has happened, I would think this is quite a bit more rare than some of the other reasons stated.
Have any of you ladies ever considered having a male friend call that long lost client for you? Would be far safter than you calling and a guy might be more forthcoming with another guy. Just a thought.
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Have any of you ladies ever considered having a male friend call that long lost client for you? Would be far safter than you calling and a guy might be more forthcoming with another guy. Just a thought. Originally Posted by Bubba3452
Just for discretionary purposes, I would hope the answer to that would be, not just no, but No Way!
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All I know is if I'm the guy, PM me.
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Just for discretionary purposes, I would hope the answer to that would be, not just no, but No Way! Originally Posted by M A X

Oh MAX not so quick what could go wrong? Sweet, this Bubba, calling on behalf of MAX she is worried about you, your well being and that of your family and friends. I mean totally innoxious.