GROW SOME BALLS BITCH!!!

Its nowhere near racially motivated, you're making it seem that way. Your actions were very suspicious acting to him and I'm sure made him uneasy as a lot of girls 'cash and dash' when they're behaving the way you were. I would've been very suspicious of you my damn self..... But not because of your race. Out of respect for your date, all attention should've been on him.

[QUOTE=Nia Baby;1053557360]until you are a black woman in this business dont talk to me about what is racially motivated.. and you are right he may have had a bad experience with another provider. it may not have been. but you do not know what its like for people to assume you have to steal because you are black. so you cannot relate[/QU
How do you know ROS?

until you are a black woman in this business dont talk to me about what is racially motivated.. and you are right he may have had a bad experience with another provider. it may not have been. but you do not know what its like for people to assume you have to steal because you are black. so you cannot relate Originally Posted by Nia Baby

Yet you were silent on the recent, "Why won't providers see AA men thread" just the other day...

Not sure what to think about that.

You all are entitled to your opinion and no body is playing "poor me".. fyi... I am entitled to expressing myself w/o having some one bash me for it..So write what you want to write say what you want to say. I could not care less.. I tried to express that I may have responded a little harshly.. But In the process I have gotten like 10 people commenting on this thread

if you are not black you dont know what it feels like to have people think you may steal something... now whats wrong with that statement?? I dont care what you think..
If you have never been stereotyped in that way you cannot relate. Originally Posted by Nia Baby

so other races dont steal things? Nobody said anything about race but you.

if you are not black you dont know what it feels like to have people think you may steal something... now whats wrong with that statement?? I dont care what you think..
If you have never been stereotyped in that way you cannot relate. Originally Posted by Nia Baby

Every provider is stereotyped. So many people view escorts as disease carrying, worthless, pieces of crap.
But the difference between you and I is, I'll never play the poor me I'm judged for who I am card.
Race has NOTHING to do with it. Bad experiences for the hobbyist do.
I've gotten negative feedback (long time ago), for being distracted in a session. If your attention isn't focused on the gent, they will wonder what it is focused on.

am i wrong for expressing myself. I have experienced people stereotyping me assuming I may steal something..

Nia you are the only one that has played the race card in these posts. Originally Posted by noleftturn

If he had a problem with you being black I dont think he would have invited you over..

I don't think people steal because they are black. I think people steal when they do something suspicious. Leaving a client alone so you can go do something else is suspicious if you are working on the client's dime. Thieves come in all races. They can be male or female. Grow up and admit you made a mistake that has nothing to do with the color of your skin.

I am writing this because it was getting a bit confusing trying to answer between replies.
So I want all who had something to say about my post to read this...
As far as how I came across I do apologize for the rudeness. Not for being upset about someone making a crazy statement. I am a good person. And was raised not to ever do that!! This is why I got so upset. Because its so far from my character
I don't appreciate how every one is trying to attack me and conduct "a witch hunt" on me and attack me because.
I blew up and said some things that were not so nice. Lets be for real no body on here is an angel or perfect and far from it!!!
Once again I am truly sorry for my rudeness. If I had it my way I would take down the post.
I bet that gentleman's balls are HUGE AND DELICIOUS!!!

I meant what I said!!!

You all are entitled to your opinion and no body is playing "poor me".. fyi... I am entitled to expressing myself w/o having some one bash me for it..So write what you want to write say what you want to say. I could care less Originally Posted by Nia Baby

I'm not bashing you.
The guys are entitled to their opinions too.
If you wanted positive feedback your title shouldn't have been GROW SOME BALLS BITCH.
You set the tone for this thread. There's a way to handle something like this and there's a way not to. Guess you know where your thread lies.
Have a great night & take some advice from this thread.

Prob not, mods will most likely merge this with the other thread.

It's actually, "I couldn't care less."
FYI mine are huge already.
Good night.

i tried to do that..but people are still bashing me.. its no use

I don't think people steal because they are black. I think people steal when they do something suspicious. Leaving a client alone so you can go do something else is suspicious if you are working on the client's dime. Thieves come in all races. They can be male or female. Grow up and admit you made a mistake that has nothing to do with the color of your skin. Originally Posted by noleftturn