DON'T be THAT $@#*!

our refrences are in..

I know exactly what you mean Lexxxy! I am fairly new and already know the "providers" that will not provide references, Originally Posted by Victoria Lane

I can understand why a provider may want to opt out of the whole providing references thing. I just hope that those providers that will not provide ref's to other providers aren't at the same time requiring them from their customers.

lexxxy..go back to the gents..explain the ladies are nt responding and you'll have to be abit creative in the screenin..if we let the gents know that the women r doin this..sometimes they think 2 about goin back to that lady.. Originally Posted by anita germane

Pretty much .... I suggest guys give the ladies they want to use for references a heads up just because he should know if she really is reference friendly after all (so not to waste his time and keep him waiting when she knows she's going to ignore the request anyways). I have way too many alternative methods to my screening to just be waiting on references to respond. Guys using or set on only using references need to hopefully not be trying to book last minute either.

All that time away and still couldn't come up with a better schtick. Originally Posted by Doove

The old schtick is fine, still cracks me up. So does the new avatar.
Ok, so I'm easily amused.

I think it really just comes down to, if we ask another provider for a reference on someone that sees her, especially if its a "regular" of hers, she thinks if she doesn't provide the reference, then we won't be able to see them. Like Lexxxy said they try to own the hobbyist this way.

I have had guys tell me they wont leave me a review because so and so provider thinks she is the only one he sees and if he writes a review on me, she has told him, she wont see him anymore. WHAT????? These are NOT your boyfriends providers and they are hobbyists for a reason......they like variety. These catty b*tches kill me LOL

But there are only a few providers on the site that I will even take as a reference, because I know they screen well. If I ask for a reference and certain providers names are given.....I cringe.

Just my thoughts........

All that time away and still couldn't come up with a better schtick. Originally Posted by Doove

Sorry I've been too busy to post but seriously I told the guys and one said that another provider told him that before but he didn't believe her until I confirmed it because the non ref providing #+:&& told him she was providing refs...how pathetic...
I'm really mad at this one because I have given her 9 Yeah that's right NINE REFS in the past year but she isn't returning the favor ... I just had another contact me using her so I told him how she lies saying she provides refs then doesn't.
Some real providers wrote me guessing who she is, funny how they all said the same person...
That's my new policy if someone won't provide refs I tell the gents that contact me using them.

I think it really just comes down to, if we ask another provider for a reference on someone that sees her, especially if its a "regular" of hers, she thinks if she doesn't provide the reference, then we won't be able to see them. Like Lexxxy said they try to own the hobbyist this way.

I have had guys tell me they wont leave me a review because so and so provider thinks she is the only one he sees and if he writes a review on me, she has told him, she wont see him anymore. WHAT????? These are NOT your boyfriends providers and they are hobbyists for a reason......they like variety. These catty b*tches kill me LOL

But there are only a few providers on the site that I will even take as a reference, because I know they screen well. If I ask for a reference and certain providers names are given.....I cringe.

Just my thoughts........ Originally Posted by Victoria Lane

I have out lived that in the past.
They should do a review if they want. The provider will get over it or not. Also can be fun.
Where I out lived this was in the now dead bar game. Where all can see what is going on first hand. Yup, the upset provider see's you leave with and come back.
the upset one will get over it fast. If not, time ta move on anyways.

The played out faster in the old bar game where there are no mods.

Your dealing with women guys, learn to enjoy your doghouse.

Sorry I've been too busy to post but seriously I told the guys and one said that another provider told him that before but he didn't believe her until I confirmed it because the non ref providing #+:&& told him she was providing refs...how pathetic...
I'm really mad at this one because I have given her 9 Yeah that's right NINE REFS in the past year but she isn't returning the favor ... I just had another contact me using her so I told him how she lies saying she provides refs then doesn't.
Some real providers wrote me guessing who she is, funny how they all said the same person...
That's my new policy if someone won't provide refs I tell the gents that contact me using them. Originally Posted by Lexxxy

Looks like Jonballs wins the best guess what Lexxxy will say contest!! OSD get your ready!

Looks like Jonballs wins the best guess what Lexxxy will say contest!! OSD get your ready! Originally Posted by iscrewedmeganfox

awesome

I wonder what provider uses refs, but dos not give them?????

All that time away and still couldn't come up with a better schtick. Originally Posted by Doove

Originally Posted by Carlos Danger

And you're even recycling your jokes.

How not clever.

And you're even recycling your jokes. Originally Posted by Doove

All comedians do that. Why not "you know who"?

All comedians do that. Why not "you know who"? Originally Posted by jackfengshui

Knock, knock.........whos......?