Who pays?

I agree with dd on that

The only obvious solution here is to pay by the minute.

$3.50 per minute sounds about right.

$3.50 a minute would leave a lot of disappointed women for two reasons. Guys can finish faster if they try (or even if they're not trying).

Grace, you need to post an alert on the client who took money out. We need to know who this guy is so it doesn't happen again. If that happened to me, he would've gotten something sprayed in his eyes and kicked out. That is unacceptable behavior.

If she tells you that going in and you pay for an hour and are done in 2 minutes... that is not her fault.
but on the other hand she should at least give you the time to cuddle and make small talk.
Originally Posted by ElumEno

Hey why bring me into this? I pay for the hour even though I am done in two minutes. I need my post two minute nap time.

Grace, you need to post an alert on the client who took money out. We need to know who this guy is so it doesn't happen again. If that happened to me, he would've gotten something sprayed in his eyes and kicked out. That is unacceptable behavior. Originally Posted by Allie_Kat

Me and you are on the same page Allie!

I will post an alert... started one in infoshare, then got distracted.

I'm sorry that happened to you Grace. It sounds as if most of us are all in agreement that if you schedule an hour, you pay for the hour. I know that you said that he stayed 40 mind but it shouldn't matter even if it was less then 30 mind you pay for the re scheduled.

Wow, why does this same thing happen at least every three or four months.
Same story, was it a new guy to this site, or someone that's been here a while.
I have seen a lot of story's about guys posting 60 minutes, getting a pop in 35 minutes, then the provider says that's it.
So some clients feel cheated and what to get MSOG in the hour they are paying for, it's the clients time. If the provider states hour and quoted a price point. Then it's for the hour.
So don't know what was quoted or if MSOG were offered in the hour. There are some providers that like to talk for 15 to 20 minutes to kill time. When the client post a review and states she talked most of the time. When the provider finds out what was posted they get pissed. It's the game they play to shorten the hour.
I was not the client, that shorted her.
I have seen GraceUTR she treated me great, the whole hour.
We even went out to eat, yes we left the hotel.
BTW I like only seeing providers that offer MSOG.
One pop providers are a dying breed these days. Most of the young ones but they don't stay around very long.

If you book for an hour then you pay for the hr but if you book an hr stay the hr and enjoy yourself if you leave under an hr you definitely don't get half back..quit being a damn cheap skate !!

I don't have his handle
He is definitely a guy from here (eccie). I checked his references but didn't get his handle.
I know the more I think of it, the more I feel cheated. I always have the option of MSOG and he utilized that option.

Unfortunately, due to this weekend, I am no longer offering hh appointments to anyone I haven't seen before. Should cut out some of the hassle, I think...

The deal is the deal, if you don't stay the whole hour there should be no "discount". However, I'll give the caveat that if there is misrepresentation (like bait and switch, upselling, neglected to mention no FS, etc), horrible service insued, an issue (no condoms, started period) or drama occurred that the hobbyist did not bring with him (like a crazy friend interrupting a half dozen times) then some refund is in order.

Hi All,
So I have a question for everyone.
Guys your question is...
If you book an hour but don't stay your whole time (your choice) do you think it's fair to leave only the donation for the time spent?
Ladies...
What do you do if a guy books an hour but leaves after 40 minutes?
Do you expect less?

My question comes from having two appointments that decided to 1. Leave only my hh rate even though spending 40+ minutes and the other taking $ out of the envelope to justify what he thought was fair Originally Posted by Graceutr

I always leave the full amount for time i booked. Especially for women I see regularly. Sometimes i might go over so I figure that it all evens out.

Book an hour, then that's the deal, even if you leave early. Sure,there can be exceptions both agreed and justified but given the question the answer is pretty straight forward. I would hope to have enough of a connection that I wouldn't want to leave, but to each their own.

Me personally I couldn't ever take back anything, if I felt shorted I would leave a review stating so and chalk it up/move on. Maybe mention it to her later and give her a chance to make good on it if in fact it was something that she did. If I was just done and was ready to hit the road after half of the meeting....then my loss. I could have stuck around, chatted, tried for a 2nd round, receives a massage......(this is stuff that you read about all the time) Get to know the provider.....etc...
again, just m2c