PISSES ME OFF!!!

Brittany! I have been there and it sucks!

I agree with what most have said here, just relax and let it happen on its own!

Sometimes when we are "expecting" it to happen it wont- just let it be and dont think about having an O in the first place-dont go into it thinking you will- just let it progress on its own.

Could it be that you were holding back a little because it felt so good??? Thats how it happens to me! LOL

KKA

the French refer to orgasm as "the little death".

They've never finished anything properly in history! JK

It happened to a partner of mine all the time. She's right there then... bam... some weird noise, phone rings, someone says something she hears on the TV in the background, some random thought about work or the kids, whatever and then it's gone never to return that session.

Yeah, I suffer from the same thing as Brittany. (no. not the worms; the not-so-happy endings). I have yet to meet a provider who can get me off orally, manually, you name it...There's just never, ever a happy ending. Any suggestions ladies? Originally Posted by SofaKingFun

Maybe you need to just venture outside of the box, as it were...

I'd rather have the worms.


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I know you mentioned there was plenty of time and/or no time constraint, but I think as good providers, we are aware of the possibility that our client might perceive that his time is slipping away while its being spent on our enjoyment. We are literally there to provide "them" with a good time and if we feel like we are the only ones having a good time then maybe they aren't.

Am I making sense? I'm just saying that maybe you are so concerned with him having a good experience that you are worried that you are taking time away that should be spent on him.

Savvy?

Now SFK, I know what you were thinking, but I think this a valid thread. I personally feel guilty when I know I'm almost "there" but I know the poor fellow has been "down there" a good 10 minutes. I hear that it gives the guys pleasure to know they have satisfied the lady orally, but I still feel guilty (to some degree anyway).

I say find yourself a Hot Chic & let her take you over the Edge or Break out the Toy while he is Down South that's a Real Turn On!

SKF - I thought it was your ducks.........that's what you told me......do your ducks have worms????

I've always called the loss of an orgasm being 'stuck'.....'cause that what it feels like to me - I'm so there and then............

SKF - I thought it was your ducks.........that's what you told me......do your ducks have worms????

I've always called the loss of an orgasm being 'stuck'.....'cause that what it feels like to me - I'm so there and then............ Originally Posted by PennyLane

Precisely!!! "stuck" is the word I was looking for.

AidanM, you are probably right. Sometimes I do wonder if the gentleman is only down there out of some sense of obligation. I tend to feel guilty when the date is all about me...

Yes ducks, and the ducks eat the worms. It's all part of that whole food chain thing. That's where the phrase, "duck on down and get 'cha some", came from.

And it's not that we go down because were obligated to do so, it's because men are explorers.


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Hope this situation has abated, but if not, does it happen all the time? if not, what's the ratio of success verses failure?

If it's still an issue, I may have to make an appointment and see this condition in action...

I agree with most here... Its all about stress. When it happens to us (me) change positions and start over. Flip over to BBJ or 69 but most of all enjoy the moment.

Orgasim: Means explosion, even the best explosions can be a little off if you put to much thought into it. Enjoy the moment let the Explosion CUM as a suprise.


I would love to give it a shot. After all since I am a leesbian trapped in a FAT mans body; you could be the buffet.... Damm I am hungry... Ma'am

interesting, cause I get off by "handling" the moment. Which is really funny sometimes cause theres like this little struggle to get in front of the situation and control the experience by the provider. First time encounters can be really interesting cause their not sure how much positive control Im wanting to exert. They don't know me, and probably prefer to lead, set the pace etc. In the end "most always" when they finally relax and are made love to, all is well. This isn't always, sometimes I like to lay back too. However, regarding your point. I was last with a provider of the utmost beauty and expertise etc. I could not get off! I was like "crazy". Somewhere along I knew it just wasn't gonna happen. I was erect. Jus knew it wasn't gonna happen. Really weird. But, no worries. Every one (experience) is different from the last. Come-No come