Kitty Lamour

This is such a sad story to see played out for someone's life. I just don't know what to say. I think the advice given was very good especially about the hospital/treatment option. I hope she is able to use it and move forward.

Best wishes Kitty, I hope you get better.

Had a crazy woman live with me once..tried to fight me, was having parties, orgies and drinking all my liquor when I was out of town..finally I said, "Look Grandma!..you gotta get the fuck out!!

This is why you should never leave cat food on your front door...they always come back and cant get rid of them...sorry about your litter box bro!! Good luck!

I have never heard of anything like that Before. Your allowed to have guest at your apt. They don't have to be on the lease. It sounds like the op has chnged their mind about helping her out. Originally Posted by uniquemonique

Yeah that was my first thought as well. Hell of a lease that doesn't let you have a woman spend the night at your place...... unless something else actually happened here.

If that's the case it's hard to tell who is the crazy one, just to be fair.

If that's the case it's hard to tell who is the crazy one, just to be fair. Originally Posted by mansfield

That at least ONE is crazy has long been a settled issue. But you make a fair point that there might be two loons in this scenario.

Homeless? Hungry? It sounds so horrible. :-( Reading what she's going through made me appreciate everything I have....a home, food, money, nice family, friends, a nice real life.
It actually crossed my mind slightly to call her and gave her a ride yesterday....just for a few seconds I thought about it. I felt so sorry for her. But I was afraid that she would cling to me, use me, and I won't be able to get rid of her. :-( And I did the right thing I didn't contact her after reading what the OP posted. Originally Posted by samantha thom

Same here - I'm very blessed and hate to see someone in this situation and did think of helping but I agree with THN and Jules - if you help someone that won't help themselves you're not really helping, you're enabling. If enough of us keep doing that she’ll never get the help she obviously needs. Kitty – I’m not making fun of you by ANY means, it’s obvious this isn’t the profession for you any longer and if you continue down this road there will unfortunately not be a good ending. Sounds like you’ve had a good run but nobody here can provide the kind of help you need. I, as others, will offer prayers and hope the best for you. I think you need to go to the Emergency Room or call 911 and have them come get you.

She is always hungry and homeless but has a freaking horse and claims to do wonderfully here. *edit* horse was repossessed.

I'm shocked that there would be drama. Just baffled.

Maybe she should team up with Marisa of Dallas and get some doubles going?

Stand by...I'm sure there will be another drama thread with K.L's name in it soon as sad as I am to say it.

GS2: I have to say you are a good hearted individual. You care about others, even sacrificing for them. Great indicator. All good to you, my brother...

She is crazy. My issue is I so enjoy seeing her craziness. Its like a trainwreck. However, after thinking / reflecting on what GS had done, how he had been repaid, it appears to be evident to my feeble mind Ms. KL is a mentally sick individual who needs help in the worst way. I feel guilty in the delight I have / had for her continual stories / drama. Having met her before - NOT bcd - I would never have anything to do with her.

Thank you GS, for causing me to reflect upon my own outlook on the Human Condition. Another chapter in my continual learning process...

There but for the Grace of god....

What happened to the money for the stereo that she was just selling....When one tries to screw the next person over or just bluntly lies about numerous encounters to get help and money I be dammed if I would help.......Let the drama continue have so many headaches with work right now making me smile is a great relief....

I took it upon myself to help this chick out yesterday. She really was on the street. I let stay at my apartment. I told her should she could stay a few days.

I told this to kitty this morning and she literally went ballistic on me, to the point of telling me no provider would ever see me again. She claimed her chest was hurting and blood pressure was high. I told her I'd call 911 because that sounded like a medical emergency. Originally Posted by gs2

Not to bash you man... But WHAT THE FUCK???



You let the moonkitty have access to your apartment with all of your real life shit in it? Dude dude dude, you shouldn't do that kind of shit man. Thats bringing it too close to home. There has got to be an endless amount of info someone could get ahold of to fuck your world up. Not to mention all the shit someome could steal. There is a fine line between being a nice guy and being dumb.

I advised her in her sandbox plea to seek medical attention and go into a mental health treatment facility.

People, she needs professional psychiatric help because she is not capable of dealing with her emotional and mental issues on her own.

Regardless of what happened with your landlord, the point is you asked her to leave and she did not. I will repeat what I told her in that thread: "Go walk into the nearest emergency room and tell them you don't want to live anymore. Tell them you have "a plan". They have to keep you for at least three days in an accredited mental health facility. Hopefully they keep you longer and help you work out an effective outpatient plan that includes safe mood stabilizing medication AND substance abuse treatment because it sounds like you need that too. At the very least you will be fed, sheltered and clothed for three days while you figure out your next move. I will most definitely keep you in my prayers. Good luck to you. It saddens me to read this and I truly hope you get the professional help you need."

I hope she takes the advice and finally gets some REAL help.

I know a lot of guys on here enjoy being the "rescuer" but enough is enough. In reality all you are doing is enabling her to continue dodging legitimate resources to assist in helping herself. 0.02 Originally Posted by thathottnurse

That is some great advice. I hope that she uses it.

She is always hungry and homeless but has a freaking horse and claims to do wonderfully here. *edit* horse was repossessed.

I'm shocked that there would be drama. Just baffled.

Maybe she should team up with Marisa of Dallas and get some doubles going? Originally Posted by Molly Chandler

So, I am thinking if you can buy a horse with credit, that's a good thing. If you can then get it repossessed, that's a better thing, since you can't give one away, and you can't shoot them anymore.

Homeless? Hungry? It sounds so horrible. :-( Reading what she's going through made me appreciate everything I have....a home, food, money, nice family, friends, a nice real life.
It actually crossed my mind slightly to call her and gave her a ride yesterday....just for a few seconds I thought about it. I felt so sorry for her. But I was afraid that she would cling to me, use me, and I won't be able to get rid of her. :-( And I did the right thing I didn't contact her after reading what the OP posted. Originally Posted by samantha thom

I've had thoughts same way as soon as I saw the post...but better not..
Already had many experience of those..

It's a risk to let someone you don't know into your house. It's a bigger risk to let someone in a hobby that you're trying to keep private into your real life. It's extremely nice of you to try to help, but where there's smoke there's fire. Reading any of the prior post from certain people on this board will give you a sense of the drama that follows them. If you don't want to be in that drama, best to keep your private life private.

Good luck to all parties involved.