I wish that the ladies I choose to repeat with --- could see themselves the way that I see them - beautiful.
Tony -cant give you any advice, You don't have any problem with self image as you stated in this thread;
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=822843&highlight=
' If I'm ever single again the line of women wanting me to marry would be long.
I get too much attention from women at work and women in the building'
Originally Posted by randall flagg
It's true. I actually went most of my life without realizing it. I always ignored and played stupid. Hell I was stupid. Then a hot young girl.at work threw herself at me, in front of my SO no less.
True story: today at lunch, I took my SO out to lunch. One of her coworkers walked right up to me and told me how good I looked and how cool my car is. So 5 yrs ago, I'd have blown it off and not noticed anything. The fact she was quite obviously putting it out there and in front of my SO. That's pretty brazen shit. And if you act on it, things will happen.
I honestly went decades without realizing women love me, and it was my own dumbass insecurity that kept me in the friend zone. Yes now I could totally enjoy the situation. But that would totally destroy my SO. And that's why I hobby. Maybe I'm a bad person, but I don't want to have an affair at work or with one of her coworkers. And trust me, by doing this, I can be nice, but lil Jr isn't interested in other women.