daty,kissing,std, and my two cents

Passion is right. Strep is everywhere and some people are persistent carriers and can infect others or become ill themselves whenever their own immune system is compromised. As to the STD and daty or other contact, there are of course risks especially when you have an open wound, ulcer, etc. in your mouth (or anywhere on your body that contacts the pathogen) and that risk is also compounded when you're own immune system is weakened (sounds like yours is).

From a hobby perspective, pick your partners carefully. Don't play with a dirty kitty, and be very aware of your own health (if you have open wounds on your crotch, penis, fingers, or in your mouth) because the key to transmission is the fluid to blood/blood to blood breach.

Given your overall health factors/reduced immune system performance and your age bracket (I'm assuming it's significant based on your comments of longevity), I agree with you that it's probably unwise for you to hobby or partake in anything where the threat of bacterial or other viral pathogens are likely. You (specifically) should also take care when you are handling veggies, fruits, and of course raw meats. I would also suggest you get the flu shot annually, and consider adding the pneumonia and shingles shots. As added protection (given your history) you may also want to consider a meningitis vaccine (booster) as well.

And.....always wash your hands regularly (I admit I'm OCD about this).

Take care of yourself and your body will take care of you.

Best wishes
I'm thinking Rosie Palm is getting a workout from you now, OP. But...do you know where that palm has been? I mean...with your luck...Be careful...
Originally Posted by brownsugarbaby
i am on the floor with this picture. sumns it all up soo perfect.
MRSA is everywhere and yes you may be a carrier and not know it and you can get it from a paper cut if the conditions are right.

DATY is not the same as BBFS and neither is CIM or NQNS. The host environments are completely different. Saliva has acids that kills many organisms that a vagina or anus does not. Comparing the two are like apples and oranges because the *transmission* is subject to *host* conditions: ph balances, enzymes, stomach acids, etc.

I'm calling bullshit on a lot of what the OP claims to have happened since at no point in all of this did he tell the provider what he tested positive with which is a huge risk to her amd anyone seeing her. It is your responsibility to inform the person or persons who could have infected you and any half-ass medical facility would sit you down for some brief patient teaching on this very subject. Perhaps all those things did happen to you but I highly doubt it all transpired the way you said it did. 0.02