Is a Hobbyist a Commodity?

Quite frankly, I dont see the difference when your married, its the same concept. He is needed for the income, and she fucks her husband for jewelry, house, and cars....just sayin Originally Posted by chellachella

That reminds me of some words of wisdom I once heard. "If your fiancee sweats walking down the aisle, file for divorce after the honeymoon".


Also, it seems that a lot of providers I've seen treat me as a victim of not getting any. I've had those that will say positive things to me. I even had one tell me that I have a big dick. All of this without me telling them any sob stories. So is it possible that there are providers that care.

Now I feel cheap, used and abused. You mean all these women aren't madly in love with me? I'm going to need a lot of therapy to get over this revelation. Originally Posted by pornodave69

Porno--I luv ya!

I don't think there is anything wrong with us guys thinking of women as sex objects - at least occasionally - this is how we think.

So I don't think there is anything wrong with a girl looking at a guy as an object of support.

Yin / Yang

In my experience that's how civilian women think of men.

I have to say Trekker that I have only met one man in my life that I do not want anything from, and was not married to him, I have no clue what the hell Im going to do with him lol. I was raised to be an opportunist by a woman who was an opportunist. I see it working both ways. Men could be raised to only see women as an object.

Civilian women or otherwise, we(women) have it within us to seek out the men who can "take care" of us. Im guilty of it. I would even pass up a cheap client for one that I knew would tip or pay more, or the client that would offer to do stuff without me asking, buy me birthday and Christmas gifts, etc. The guy who skimped was left hanging. Money talks right?