Why I partake in this

\Only problem now is getting verified if you are retired. Originally Posted by reef50

Contact P411. They can work with you to get you verified even if you aren't actively working a job. Gina and crew can make it happen, and the price they charge is worth it. Then with the P411, search for "newbie friendly" ladies in the NM area near you and set up an appointment. Just takes one "OK" on P411 to make more providers available.. which gets you more OK's.. which makes more available.. and so on and so on.

I do it because I'm an ugly motherfucker.

I do it because I like variety. Don't misunderstand me, I am single although I do date frequently and also have one SB who is absolutely incredible BCD but....

Dating frequently means many first dates which does not always fulfill my sexual desires even if we do have sex. The SB has two very young children and is not available to do the dinner and drinks thing without way too much prior coordination and drama.

Hobbying fills the void and I have met some AMAZING providers both from the sexual standpoint as well as the intellectual.

And I add this only because of the posts about age and fugliness, I am a 45 year old fit, attractive professional.

We should all be thankful that for whatever reason there are wonderful providers out there who are willing to spend time with us. I know I am...

EC

I love being playful and sexual... I love to meet new people and get to know them... love seeing old friends!...and I love being spoiled....
I enjoy the variety... I enjoy the feeling of control when I get someone off...
I like feeling manhandled and dominated... I like taking friends on "explorations"...
I do not want to sit at home in my easy chair all day...
I like having my own money to spend on whatever I want to...
There are several more reasons, but these are the first to come to mind.

EveningCloud, I hope I get to meet you some day!

I like the independence of it. Of choosing who I get to.keep company with. I also love the kindness and intimacy that the older gents I see have bestowed on me. Although I am young, I do go to schopl and work full time and really don't have the time or want for a steady relationship. The hobby calms me. I can take a break from my hectic life and focus on entertaining gentlemen who want to be with me and apreciate me. My earnings go towards paying off my tuition and I've never had so much fun working towards my goal. So to all hobbyists want to say thank you

Recently I have spent a considerable amount of time pondering this subject and I really do not have an intelligent answer. At one time I thought I knew but now I am beginning to wonder. Just about the time I think I have it figured out I realize that I was sadly mistaken.....

After my divorced and had not found any job I became a provider. I rebuilt my financial stability and able to saved up. Then I listened to someone who was a great liars. I can't changed the way things are as I'm the only one who is having responsibility financially toward my children. I wasted 14 months of my life time and got off track. I would not allow that to happen again as I knew better now. Today, I'm at my square one and I'm trying to save up for few more months. I am not going to hang on to false hope and dreams that would never come true! I can't sit at home and waited for 2-3 hours several times a week. It's just a wasted of time. Being single is a wonderful thing. Married is another. We all have our differences of wants and needs. I would not change ANYTHING for right now because, it won't make any different.
Why would I change my life for someone who is not there for me?

Might garner some leniency if you get busted.

Why do I do this? I have tried to answer that question for myself many times, mostly when I was younger and was troubled because I kept reading/hearing all these arguments that it was wrong, evil, and ruining the lives of the ladies I was seeing.

In the end I realized that those were the messages that were wrong. I realized that no, not all the ladies in this business are here because they are forced to be. No, they are not all drug crazed, pimp supporting harpies. Once I realized that (knowing that some subset do fit that mold) I was able to revisit the question and come to a much simpler answer.

I do this because I enjoy the company of interesting, beautiful women, both in public and in private--and with a little care where I look I keep finding a more open, honest, quality class of people here than I do in the general populous.


There are a number of ladies I have met in this business who I would go out of my way to take out to dinner even if I knew with 100% certainty that all the evening held was dinner. The fact that there is more most nights just makes it that much better.

I can relate, breakofdawn2.
I love what the hobby has to offer, I can share my energies with a gentleman with no strings attached. And the financial benefits are wonderful too, no denying that.
And I have met some truly wonderful men in the hobby. Originally Posted by Nicolet

+1! I love the variety, have the rest of my life to settle down with just one....ijs

I like meeting a variety of beautiful and incredible women. The challenge is finding ladies who loves the sex as much as the donation.
I like the drama free experiences and it saves a lot of my time.