Guys and No show's

ck you are always counseling these girls on the "right way" to go about doing things, and your way is usually some complicated formula that you've invented and want to persuade them about, all so you can maintain your con that you're an "escort guru" that they need.

I've never done anything the way you insist it must be done, and I might be the highest volume provider in Austin and San Antonio. I learned my ways from operating in New York, where everyone operates likewise. I think most operators in most places do the same, away from "mentoring" review board operators who try to sell the girls on their necessity.

If I were to do things the way you suggest it would be a disaster.

Here's another example. In my work I keep no records. They are unnecessary and a huge liablity when discovered and compromised. However your advice to providers is that not only should they keep them, but that they should "salt" them with phoney names and numbers of local pillars of the community like politicians and clergy who actually have nothing to do with you. Can you imagine the ire that doing that would invoke among prosecutors once such a malicious ploy was exposed? Can you imagine the public rage that would occur against a provider who did that? Can you imagine the field day the press would have as the officials on your list were systemmatically cleared of any relation to you, and how long it would go on? I can't imagine anything that would prompt a prosecutor or a judge TO THROW THE BOOK at any provider who was exposed as having done something as malicious and devious as that. Nor could I imagine anything that would cause more bad publicity just at the time when such was un-needed.

ck please put away your book of advice and rules. You have never been a provider and you wouldn't know what it is to be one.

Since getting the incall, I had my first no call/no show. I've always let the client know as far in advance as possible if I can't make it. It really sucks (especially when I drive in from out of town)!
I'm really sorry this happened to you! It's such a bad feeling!

aww i'm sorry bella bee.
i know it's fraustrating but some guys don't have the same respect as other's

After I got my 1st incall I gave directions (complete with apt #) to 5 guys within the 1st month where they had to cancel due to work (I hope)

That changed my directions quickly. There is nothing like a sinking feeling that you gave directions to someone for the 1st visit and they had to cancel due to work or blah blah blah.... whatever.

Maybe it isn't as complicated as CK says but with all due respect I AM a provider and I D.E.W. it this way.

Call 1 We set the appt but I don't give directions till one hour before. I will tell you the big intersection one mile away. (I have had many at this point have work intervene but at least they don't have all info)

Call 2 gets you to the place but not the apt. #

you call when you get there THEN you get the apt. #.

It's up the lady to D.E.W. her thang to protect her location.

After I got my 1st incall I gave directions (complete with apt #) to 5 guys within the 1st month where they had to cancel due to work (I hope)

That changed my directions quickly. There is nothing like a sinking feeling that you gave directions to someone for the 1st visit and they had to cancel due to work or blah blah blah.... whatever.

Maybe it isn't as complicated as CK says but with all due respect I AM a provider and I D.E.W. it this way.

Call 1 We set the appt but I don't give directions till one hour before. I will tell you the big intersection one mile away. (I have had many at this point have work intervene but at least they don't have all info)

Call 2 gets you to the place but not the apt. #

you call when you get there THEN you get the apt. #.

It's up the lady to D.E.W. her thang to protect her location. Originally Posted by Dagny D.E.W.

wow! I mean that is standard operating procedure! I never knew you could do it other then the way Dagny just explained.

I agree. I give general location once apt is set, then the address on the day of apt, and then apt/room number upon arrival. sorry this happened to u... never fun!

I frankly dislike Dags method or any Provider who does this type of business, you have screened me and I will provide any other info to make you comfortable, we set a time and date, I will call you when I am on the way , I dont see why I have to call again?

if you dont trust me enough to give me the location on the day of the confirmed appointment before I head your way then perhaps we should not see each other.

nothing worse then calling the 3rd time only to get VM and or mailbox full, then I have to sit in a freakling parking lot with every Tom, Dick and Harry staring at me, when that happens I immediately get irritated, ask many guys, I read it many reviews..

to each is own, I will choose not to see those 3 call ladies,..
I think my reputation speaks for itself..

if I was a total newbie then the 3 call method would be understood..

making the first appointment easy and smooth is what I consider great TCB,

any client whether he is the first or 100th time to see you he can freak out or flip out or have drama..

just my 3 cents

The three call system is a little annoying. Most of the time I get the name of the apartment complex or the hotel before I head out, so I can plug it in the GPS and just have to call for the apartment or room number when I get there. Trying to navigate traffic and follow directions without making a wrong turn while on my cheap hobby phone is not my favorite thing to do.

Hello gents and ladies!! I have a statement to make, If you call a lady talk to her a for a few minute's fill her out then get the directions to her room get there and asked for the room number, then after you find out the room number to young lady you say, you have a bad attitude i'm sorry can't make it! SORRY THAT'S A BUNCH OF BULLSHIT you were supossed to fill her out before you get to room not after you find out the room number which takes a girl a couple words to say, there's no way you can have an attitude saying im in room "". your a no show jus like a lady is! it's weird to ask for the room number and come! it doesn't matter if your a newbie or "senior member" RESPECT is all the same. Originally Posted by FilipinaDestiny

Not being impersonal here but......

"Sounds like Karma has returned and chose you this time."

Marley I appreciate your care in disclosing my incall locations [which you use] but given that I'm not as careful you don't need to be either when using my places.

To me if someone has enough credibility with me for me to offer them an appointment, I'm ready for them to know where it is. So far I've not had a problem, and I've been at this for a while now.

she was slamed on BP by more than one in san antonio.

can you prove that all those that slammed her on SA BP were not the same person?

i believe in treating other's the way you want to be treated. and i believe that becauase honey attract's more than vinegar ever will. Originally Posted by FilipinaDestiny

Great advice! You should put forth some effort to live by your creedo. On two separate occasions, we set up an appointment and you tell me to call you when I get to the hotel and you'll give me the room #. I get there and you have turned off your phone or let it go to voicemail wasting a huge amount of time for me. I'm not trying to jump all over you but providers that are the best at respecting our time tend to get there time respected too.

all the advice is great and as for karma i don't understand how??

and as for being slammed on backpage in san antonio that was another provider,
i have and always have had good reviews.

here are some recnt one's from this board
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=86903
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=82511
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=73422

so please if your not offering advice or have never seen me please don't try to slam me now. how can you judge something you've never met? kind of odd.

Great advice! You should put forth some effort to live by your creedo. On two separate occasions, we set up an appointment and you tell me to call you when I get to the hotel and you'll give me the room #. I get there and you have turned off your phone or let it go to voicemail wasting a huge amount of time for me. I'm not trying to jump all over you but providers that are the best at respecting our time tend to get there time respected too. Originally Posted by discretionaryincome

ummm?? i give you my room number and you don't come hmmmm sounds like your the one no showing.....