Since when is it ok to

There are those people who take pleasure in not only talking the price down, but doing so in a manner that belittles the other person. The insult is hidden so it is difficult to take offense, even if you feel it. It is called a desire for power over the other person.

If you ever get the feeling that the other person is trying to control you, just walk away. Sex is about pleasure, not power.

Play nice.

JR Originally Posted by JRLawrence

Very well said sweetheart. ..

I've always found that people who talk you down on price are never satisfied with what they bought, though perfectly fine, but want more than what they bought and will push the envelope for that knowing full well that is what they are doing and they bought less. They are usually pretty effective actors at feigning disgust and dismay at being held to the basis of their bargain so as to try to manipulate or shame you into more. I've learned over time that such people have unrealistic expectations, are generally self centered and selfish, use you, and no matter what you do will complain and express displeasure. You can never end up ahead with them and usually cost yourself more by attempting to deal with them. It's not worth it in the time to deal with it alone. If you're at $300 an hour and you spend 30 minutes dealing with the cheap skate you not only cost yourself $150, but effectively took yourself down by that amount even if you end up with the full price from them because you effectively spent an hour and a half with them.

Tell a provider that her price is too high and she needs to come down on it? This board member has done this to at least 3 different providers on here that I know of. All comments from hobbiest and providers welcome. Thanks in advance. Originally Posted by OLindsay

Okay...

You've recently added, "MSOG now allowed" to your tag line.

Now, you're complaining about someone questioning your prices.

You can negotiate, or not. Who cares?

Everyone has a shelf life.

I can't wait until eBay and Costco get in the business.

I can't wait until eBay and Costco get in the business. Originally Posted by bartipero

Do they have a closeout bin for providers?

No, at Costco they're on the pallet way in back up by the ceiling, and you have to bring your own fork lift. I don't know about eBay yet because the auction doesn't close for another week, so I'm going to shop for used cars and day old bread until then.

No, at Costco they're on the pallet way in back up by the ceiling, and you have to bring your own fork lift. I don't know about eBay yet because the auction doesn't close for another week, so I'm going to shop for used cars and day old bread until then. Originally Posted by bartipero

You are correct.

But they still have Slushees and corn dogs at Costco, right?

Looking for Ms. former almost famous model could wear a guy out.

Unless she was working at the food counter. Which is entirely possible. As long as it's the Costco north of the river.

You are correct.

But they still have Slushees and corn dogs at Costco, right?

Looking for Ms. former almost famous model could wear a guy out.

Unless she was working at the food counter. Which is entirely possible. As long as it's the Costco north of the river. Originally Posted by NoahScape

Considering you looking for regular yet never see any of use. Where. Are you you

lets. Make it legit new breed

and we not yakking about petty shit

Considering you looking for regular yet never see any of use. Where. Are you you Originally Posted by Gemma34

Is there some Wichita white trash translation for this on the Google?

Otherwise, I will have to respond, "Que?"

and we not yakking about petty shit Originally Posted by Gemma34

We be makin' pastries after the doin' is done!

Wooin', screwin' an tattooin'!

Luv ya...

I just don't understand why some guys are rude to providers. Those providers are doing me a favor. If I could get their kind of attention elsewhere I would. Fact is, a guy my age and looking like I do doesn't have much chance outside the hobby. They charge what they charge. I will pay it if I think they are worth it. If I don't think they are worth it, I look for someone else. No need to be negative or put someone down. These ladies have a tough job. If a lady can make me think I'm young and sexy for an hour, she's earned what she charges. God bless each one of them!

I just don't understand why some guys are rude to providers. Those providers are doing me a favor. If I could get their kind of attention elsewhere I would. Fact is, a guy my age and looking like I do doesn't have much chance outside the hobby. They charge what they charge. I will pay it if I think they are worth it. If I don't think they are worth it, I look for someone else. No need to be negative or put someone down. These ladies have a tough job. If a lady can make me think I'm young and sexy for an hour, she's earned what she charges. God bless each one of them! Originally Posted by CuteOldGuy

At least you didn't waste your 21,000th post on this. You still have 973 to go. Plenty of time to refine.

Here is my 2 cents. I recently saw a provider at $250 rate. It was a nice time but she did not allow DATY. That wasn't a deal breaker but it is certainly something I like and want. Will I see her again? YES. But, I will wait until she offers one of here $200 specials since there is something missing from the session. I'm not going to ask her to take less, I'm just not going to pay more for less. She controls the pussy, but I control the money. This is similar to clients that won't see providers that don't offer BBBJs.
But I reckon that's an argument for another thread.