Stood up, again

Alright, it's been almost two days, no word on where she was. To be completely fair, she hasn't logged on to ECCIE since I asked for an explanation (3 hours after the appointment time), but I'll ask here: Shelby Mustang, where were you? I hope it wasn't anything serious, but I would have liked to know I could go do something else with my Saturday afternoon besides sitting at home alone.

Maybe her Mustang broke down, you know Fix Or Repair Daily.

Maybe her Mustang broke down, you know Fix Or Repair Daily. Originally Posted by royamcr

Possibly. She was looking for a way to get here. First she mentioned a cab (told her ok, but it would look out of place in my neighborhood), then asking friends, and finally did she was renting a car and would be here as soon add she had it. She read but didn't respond to a couple of messages after that.

Thanks, pretty lady. I'd call you, except for the two references thing. Originally Posted by Knight69Fun

there are other ways....pm me

Good for you, Angel!! Sounds like the guy has been through a lot. I know what he means I can only hobby 6 or so times a year. I was lucky i was able to establish myself early with a great group of providers. They know who they are and I thank them, too!!

Possibly. She was looking for a way to get here. First she mentioned a cab (told her ok, but it would look out of place in my neighborhood), then asking friends, and finally did she was renting a car and would be here as soon add she had it. She read but didn't respond to a couple of messages after that. Originally Posted by Knight69Fun

Right, bdd. Alright, I'll take a shot at decoding this. She had problems getting to you and you didn't make it any easier, and it quickly became a pain in the rear and not worth it to her. Several things to keep in mind: 1. Women are security seekers. Blow that and they stay where they are. 2. Texting too much in a short time makes you look needy and uninteresting and/or a pain. 3. Women, in general, are subtle, very passive aggressive, i.e., if you know she got the texts and didn't respond, you've been thrown out at 3rd, a better deal came along in this context. Keep in mind, someone who is really interested doesn't disengage. And if they tell you to confirm with them, you're already off the list--that's chickspeak for 'I'm gonna flake on you.'

Alright, I'll take a shot at decoding this. She had problems getting to you and you didn't make it any easier, and it quickly became a pain in the rear and not worth it to her. Several things to keep in mind: 1. Women are security seekers. Blow that and they stay where they are. 2. Texting too much makes you look needy and uninteresting. 3. Women, in general, are very passive aggressive, i.e., if you know she got the texts and didn't respond, you've been thrown out at 3rd, a better deal came along. Keep in mind, someone who is really interested doesn't disengage. Originally Posted by bartipero

Wow, I've been missing Dr. Laura on talk radio and it seems like you should take her chair!

Wow, I've been missing Dr. Laura on talk radio and it seems like you should take her chair! Originally Posted by NoahScape

No time, too busy reading Guns and Ammo so I can get on Piers Morgan.

No time, too busy reading Guns and Ammo so I can get on Piers Morgan. Originally Posted by bartipero

That and a 55 gallon drum of Androgel. Rock on Ned Nugent!

Right, bdd. Alright, I'll take a shot at decoding this. She had problems getting to you and you didn't make it any easier, and it quickly became a pain in the rear and not worth it to her. Several things to keep in mind: 1. Women are security seekers. Blow that and they stay where they are. 2. Texting too much in a short time makes you look needy and uninteresting and/or a pain. 3. Women, in general, are subtle, very passive aggressive, i.e., if you know she got the texts and didn't respond, you've been thrown out at 3rd, a better deal came along in this context. Keep in mind, someone who is really interested doesn't disengage. And if they tell you to confirm with them, you're already off the list--that's chickspeak for 'I'm gonna flake on you.' Originally Posted by bartipero

Let's handle these one at a time. 1) How am I supposed to make it easier for her to have transportation, other than do incall instead of out? 2) No texting, and few PMs, didn't flood her with "Are you there yet?", mostly just acknowledged the messages she sent me. 3) Yeah, I figured out that she probably got a call from someone looking for an incall and decided that it was easier.

If she'd just sent me a message to say she couldn't make it, at least I wouldn't have sat on my ass waiting and hoping. I did have other things I could have done with my afternoon.