I don't know where to put this..

sms918's Avatar
Katie, I'm sorry for you and hope your feeling better. I'm always trying to work on my communication skills so The provider and I can have a great time. Especially in the area your talking about, I ask for feedback to improve what I'm doing or if I'm doing something wrong or right. Providers usually do the same when roles are reversed, because sometimes they want to know how their doing, ( sometimes can be painful or improved upon). This is supposed to be a pleasureable experience, and I hope for both not just one involved.


Not to get off topic but, your pictures on your website are really very beautiful and very well done.
Samcro84's Avatar
Agree with all above. Sometimes the guys need to realize that there are two sides to every story. But I do think you have got your point across. I don't particularly like the FIV because I am always afraid I will hurt the girl. I just use other parts of mine that make it feel good, kinda like kissing it to make it fell better. LOL

Agree with SMS pics are great, may need to make a call.
It is my opinion that FIV is a risky activity. Early in my hobbying experience my companion was injured during a wild FIV session, to the point of the session ending due to bleeding. Things were exciting and fun right up to the moment she jumped back and demanded to see my hand. She spent the next 10 minutes inspecting my fingers trying to find the cause. The inspection was oddly sensual and in the end she was frustrated she couldn't find a sharp nail or raised cuticle but the evidence of the injury was real. She was a sweetheart, we had seen each other previously and since as well. But it was scary. She was out of work for ten days, and it was on me.

Since that experience I don't do FIV unless requested. I won't agree unless I am confident my nails and cuticles are in good shape. Even then I won't get aggressive in technique, having since been shown where to concentrate the pressure with gentle movement. If she wants thrusting I have another tool for that!

Katie, I'm sorry you were injured and hurt. My best wishes go out to you.