What am I doing wrong?

Move on..... it is a total waste of your time trying to figure out why someone does anything in this world of ours.

I, too, do not see anything wrong with the content of your Introduction PM. The only thing might be that you did not give enough time between your first contact and the time you want to meet. Look at it as time-management, if she has X people that fit into her schedule with screening already handled; then screening someone new with little or no time is not worth her time.

We have all been there at one time or another.

Just saying......

Move on.....

Suzy, you are in no way who I was talking about, just to be sure you know. We had good contact until things went out of your control, and a soon as you recovered you cleared it up. I'm looking forward to seeing you!

His references were both great. One returned very quickly and she had seen him multiple occasions. I was also still waiting for the 2nd, as I require 2. (And not being locked out of car and house.) As long as the reference is positive, there would be no issue.
He also sent his stats on request!

I think you are doing well! Little patience will pay off! Originally Posted by SuzyQ

Maybe they do not want to see you ...

I try extremely hard to reply to everyone. Sometimes when I am on the road, I can only reply between sessions... and have to make in short and simple.

In this case, there are only two scenarios that really count...

Either she misplaced your messages ( I have done that before) or she just decided to ignore you.

The reasons for either do not matter...

I have misplaced a message before and when it is brought to my attention, I apologize profusely and try to make it right. I do not totally ignore a message unless it has a lot of red flags... such as "HI... I am Tom... what are your rates and services?"

Type that to me and you will hear crickets!!! LOL

I just finished visiting KCMO and it was great! But because of the response, I had a time keeping up with messages. Still, I did it!

Knight, sir... you are spot on in what you provided as an intro. The good thing is that there are a lot of good well known providers out there. So, move on and find another one! The next girl might be your ATF!!

Smooch!

Lea

"...I just finished visiting KCMO and it was great! But because of the response, I had a time keeping up with messages. Still, I did it!..."

Supply and demand seems to explain it.

"...I just finished visiting KCMO and it was great! But because of the response, I had a time keeping up with messages. Still, I did it!..."

Supply and demand seems to explain it. Originally Posted by bartipero

I don't think that's the whole story - while supply and demand levels may make acknowledging every message unnecessary, politeness still says to do it anyway. Some providers meet that standard, some obviously do not.
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