+1 on every reply, basically if a hobbyists has to ask any question about any thing your showcase is flawed
No face picture is a deal breaker to me, I've been surprised by ugly before
+1 on every reply, basically if a hobbyists has to ask any question about any thing your showcase is flawed
No face picture is a deal breaker to me, I've been surprised by ugly before Originally Posted by theboss21422
So no face is a deal breaker? What if they're willing to show a face picture after you've been screened? I'm a paranoid person so I would never consider putting my face on my showcase. Originally Posted by LilianaThat is a good idea/question and I have asked the exact same thing in one of the previous threads on this subject and was answered by a provider that if she did that then more than likely the guy would post that face pic somewhere on the internet. If that was the case, even though their is no way to stop that from happening, then she needs to rethink her screening process and no real adult hobbyist who would betray the provider's right of privacy.
... If that was the case, even though their is no way to stop that from happening, then she needs to rethink her screening process and no real adult hobbyist who would betray the provider's right of privacy. Originally Posted by NearHauteRedThis is naive thinking.
This is naive thinking.Naive thinking? I said there was not a 100% way of preventing a guy to not give your pics to someone else or post them on the internet. Unfortunately, all we can go on is each others word, especially in this business, it is virtually all word of mouth when it comes to making a decision to actually see another person for a session. Why would a guy send you pics of providers he has seen, to brag? THAT is naive! I feel that if a hobbyist wants face pics of a provider as a determining factor to see her for a session and she sends him one or two, he should respect that privacy IF he has that genuine respect for a provider's privacy, and it looks like your good friends did not have such respect if the provider did not want a pic of her face to be shown in public. As far as the screening aspect goes, certainly there is provider buzz topic of some sort about a hobbyist who asked to see face pics of a provider in order to see her for a session and she sent them only to find out he shared them if some form or fashion. If not, there should be.
If we screen properly then that will prevent our pictures from being posted because all screened clients are well meaning and good guys who wouldn't share our picture with a friend or bragging buddy (and then that friend wouldn't share the picture, either, right?) and would never post that picture anywhere.
I have personally had good friends and clients of mine send me pictures of ladies they've seen. If they do this with me (and of course, the excuse is that they wouldn't send pictures of ME to anyone else but they're sending me a picture of someone else) then my thought is that they would send pictures out of me to others.
I liked what Tinman wrote. The burden and risks of showing our face is worth the loss of business that might occur by doing so.
I feel for some of the ladies who just aren't thinking that this line of work (and sex work is real work) is mostly a temporary one and they send pictures, that are requested, of spread eagle shots and God knows what, with the potential client getting the goodies and she is leaving herself open to some heartache in the future.
This subject is more complicated than suggesting that we can be safe with our identity by just having the ability to screen well. Originally Posted by ElisabethWhispers