Does anyone other than me find this odd?Big difference between HDH and scamming the clients. From what you've said, I think you get this already without advice. Agencies, for the most part, suck.
Thank you!! Originally Posted by NewKitten
May I "horn", pardon the pun, in this discussion and ask a related question?There are men willing to pay $1500 an hour but the notion that you might get them in a room for a $$$ or $$$$ price and then switch the price will get you nothing but negative reviews and alerts. Some ladies raise their price so that the amount of clients they have will be reduced. It is easy to be a HDH. Just raise your price. Just remember that most clients won't pay a much higher price for the same product. Men who pay the very high prices are the Elliot Spitzer types. They have much to lose and discretion is more important than money. Stay away from agencies and pimps. Learn to screen well! There is a difference between being high dollar and high class. Some ladies can be both. Some can't even make a living offering everything.
I am just starting out, very interested in being on the upper end of the spectrum, and have been talking to an agency that suggests I should take their prescribed donation at the start of the appointment and then tell the client that in order to have a really hot show (anything over company) my tips start at no less than $1500. Does anyone other than me find this odd? I am quite happy to provide a great GFE, but two agencies now have categorically said their fee is the baseline where nothing happens and I should be raking in thousands each week for anything like GFE...
I am really not sure about this? I don't want to make a complete ass of myself and make the client angry. I'll ruin my chances before I really even get started.
And SexiLexi, I would really be grateful for the 411 on the to-be-avoided advertiser you mention.
Any sisterly advice would be soo helpful. I really want to make this work.
Thank you!! Originally Posted by NewKitten
... in my opinion ... you need to lose about 25-30 pounds .. .You also need to learn to use spell check, grammar, and stop typing in all caps. Well, there's more ...And we all know you aren't Henry Higgins.
P.S. We all know you aren't in college and a former rich kid.... Originally Posted by Lucas McCain
Sarah, you have a beautiful smile. And in my opinion you have a really attractive face. But, you need to lose about 25-30 pounds if you want to be a HDH.....You also need to learn to use spell check, grammar, and stop typing in all caps. Well, there's more but I'll leave it alone.
Fortunately, that's all easily fixable.
You really do have a beautiful smile and a nice face.
Best of luck to you.
P.S. We all know you aren't in college and a former rich kid....That elitist crap is kind of silly. Just look good, and nobody gives a shit about your bullshit background. Originally Posted by Lucas McCain
FOR MANY MANY YEARS I HAVE WANTED TO BE LIKE THE GIRLS I SEE ON TV HAVE SO MUCH FUN WITH NICE FUN GUYS AND REALLY NICE FUN PLACES, I NEVER KNEW IT WAS POSSIBLE TILL I KINDA STUMBLED INTO IT, AND THE GUYS WITH THE DIFFERENT WANTS AND NEEDS DIFFERENT FETISHES AND FANTASYS ITS LIKE A WONDERLAND AND IM ALICE, I HAVE MEET A FEW GUYS THAT HAVE BEEN A LITTLE HIGHER CLASS THAN OTHERS AND I THINK THATS GREAT I WANT TO BE A HIG CLASS PROVIDER I STAY IN THE BETTER PLACES, I TRY AND OFER THE BEST I CAN FOR MY GUYS AND WHILE I AM STILL NEW TO THIS I FEEL LIKE IT HAS BEEN GOING QUITE WELL! AND IM LOVING THE HOBBY!!When did "high class" become efficiency rate at 200 an hour?
MY BACKGROUND
I COME FROM A SMALL TOWN ABOUT AND WAS RAISED TO ENJOY EVERYTHING IN LIFE AND ALWAYS BE POSITIVE, I DIDNT KNOW THAT WE WERE WELL OFF AND NEITHER DID MY BROTHERS OR SISTER. YES IM USED TO STAYING IN HYATTS AND BEING DRIVEN AND PRIVATE PLANES. BUT I NEVER KNEW ANY DIFFERENT.
ME NOW
I AM SEPARATED FROM MY PARENTS AS ME MOVING TO HOUSTON WAS NOT WHAT THEY WANTED AND I AM GOING TO UH FOR REAL ESTATE LAW AND I DO HAVE A FULL TIME TRAVEL 24/7 JOB. SO I HAVE NO TIME FOR DATING, AND WITH MY SUPER HIGH SEX DRIVE THIS IS HOW I FOUND ECCIE AND P411!
THANK YOU ALL FOR READING JUST HOW I FEEL ABOUT ME, AND BEING HERE AND BEING A HIGH CLASS PROVIDER
Originally Posted by sarah-star
i don't agree that a girl has to be thin to make big bucks. i don't want to put anyone on the spot here but i know of several women charging in the 1000 range that are not spinners, and if you look at percentages, most of the so called hdh crowd are in their late 30s to late 40s so there ya have it. most guys would rather pay an 18 year old 200 than pay a 40 year old 1k. not me, but many on here do so saying that a gal needs to be young and thin to command a high rate is stupid. it's proven otherwise. add to that, many hdh girls are only in the 300 dollar range. not high end at all yet they still claim the label.You're funny. You've obviously never been to grad school if you think it's all writing. Or certainly not one that is actually accredited. Or maybe you are a History major. Fuck, I don't know. I just know you never got a quant degree with such an ignorant generalization about grad school.
grammar is a big one though. not true that educated people all know how to write either. many providers attend grad school and can still tour. have you never heard of taking one class at a time? online schools? yes, even the top universities have online classes for grad school. we are not talking about university of phoenix here. educated does not make one smart, so i don't know why it is so hard to believe that some providers do indeed have advanced degrees. could that be projection?
grad school is all writing last time i checked, and with only one class it is very feasable to only put in about 10 hours of school work a week if you don't need to have someone edit your shit before you turn it in. also depends where you live. top schools up north want over a 3.5 gpa while in the south you can get into some grad schools with as low as a 2.5. what dummy can't pull a 2.5? research is your friend. Originally Posted by ronjeremy
Picture #2: Might want to consider joining a gym. The thighs joining the ass are a little out of proportion. Undies that fit would be more appropriate as well... It's never good to accentuate your flaws. I'm a fattie too darlin and how we dress and present ourself to wealthy prospective clients matters a lot!I think at $200 an hour in a Best Western in Houston..... the land of $180 and hour and NoTells with neon lighted headboards..... she is already a HighDollaHooker....
Picture #3: Push up bra is too big.
Picture #4: Mirror picture? Really? At least that's better than bathroom pictures. But not by much. No Not Much... And lean the other way in order to tighten the skin... not accentuate the rolls
Picture #5: Were back to the guy thing. Some guys kind of prefer the ladies gut be smaller than theirs. Speak for yourself SL.. I got a bigger gut and can't comment...
Picture #7: I'm pretty sure most "high Class" escorts don't stay at Best Western. nope.... Didn't she say "Hyatt"? somewhere?
Picture #10: Is that a tampon on the couch? I do believe it's a wrapper from a tampon...
Picture #13: Please don't tell me that's a panty shield? uggghhhhhh
My recommendation is to get all new pictures. professionally shot if HDH Join a gym. a few months before the pictures preferably.... And under promise and over give rather than the other way around. Also most guys could care less where you came from and about your education. Not true..... In her case it's a tremendous source of entertainment..... UH huh? You must be in under some sort of minority admissions standards.... They just want to know if you can hold still long enough for them to Slamdango your ass.
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