Providers are people with lives too, duh!

Destiny, you are the best. That should never have happened. Just a matter of common courtesy.
I am going to be in Minneapolis this weekend for business and have called 4 local providers left 4 messages and no return calls. Another example of a lack of common courtesy - that may not be all that common.

Destiny, that is why I have them confirm that day and again when they leave to come see me. That way I'm not out of pocket for my incall. That would make me extremely upset.

To all the guys that are having problems. Maybe you're contacting the wrong providers. Some of us are known for being reliable.

Maddening when this happens, sorry to hear Miss Destiny; onto the DNS list he goes.

Destiny it is all about respect. Put him on your do not see list. Ladies talk amongst your community and when he has a hard time finding a playmate so be it.

I feel ya on this one. Poor communication sucks. How much time does it take to text someone and say, "hey, I'm in the weeds right now and I'm not sure how soon I can break free. I'll text you as soon as I'm available so I can reschedule."

Destiny, that is why I have them confirm that day and again when they leave to come see me. That way I'm not out of pocket for my incall. That would make me extremely upset.

To all the guys that are having problems. Maybe you're contacting the wrong providers. Some of us are known for being reliable. Originally Posted by Allie_Kat

You are most likely correct Allie.........might need to work on that!

Destiny, that is why I have them confirm that day and again when they leave to come see me. That way I'm not out of pocket for my incall. That would make me extremely upset.

To all the guys that are having problems. Maybe you're contacting the wrong providers. Some of us are known for being reliable. Originally Posted by Allie_Kat

You could always solicit your services to select consumers...

+10000.

Destiny, that is why I have them confirm that day and again when they leave to come see me. That way I'm not out of pocket for my incall. That would make me extremely upset.

To all the guys that are having problems. Maybe you're contacting the wrong providers. Some of us are known for being reliable. Originally Posted by Allie_Kat

Hmmmm what a gem. Sounds like he assumed you didn't have anything else to do but wait around for him. Jeez (smh).

I had a situation happen today that upset me.. Maybe it upset me a little more than it should have, but it has happened more than once recently so I would like to say something.

Today one of my clients called me up and set up an appointment for 11:30am.
I take a shower, make sure everything is ready, pay for a room, get my room set up.
Well.. Around 11:15am I sent him a text to see if we were still on, and he asked if we could please move it to 12:00pm. Sure that is fine, no biggie.

Well around 11:30 a different client called and asked for an appointment at 12 and I apologized and told him that would not work for me because I already have an appointment today.

Well... 12pm comes around and I call my client.. no answer. I wait.. call again.. no answer. I send him a text and ask if he is still coming.. still no response 30 mins later... I go back home.

He texts me around 1pm and says he is on his way....
umm?? NO.

Its an hour past the time.. I explain to him that I was upset and WHY I was upset and all he says is "sorry, can I still come?"

Let me make one thing clear... I completely understand that sometimes things come up.. meetings run late, maybe your wife comes home early or your kid gets sick at school. But please at least have the courtesy to let me know, and also please don't just assume that you can drag an appointment that was meant for 11:30am to whatever time is convenient for you in the afternoon.
Its not even the fact that he didn't come that bothers me, its the way he apologized like it didn't really matter.

Please just respect us enough to let us know. Same goes with the providers, please respect that your clients have lives and can't sit around and wait for you all day. Be courteous people!

Sorry for my rant, but I haven't had one in awhile so I felt like I owed the board some Destiny Drama Originally Posted by DestinyInKC