*sigh* advice?

i totally get what everyone is saying i just dont like the fact that i have to jump through hurdles just to get to see a provider of my first choice
i understand ladies have to take precaution to ensure safety no doubt but what about the johns we have to protect ourselves also
what if one day i meet a provider and things go sour for whatever reason and im out and about with say my SO and the provider wants to be a b**** and stirs up trouble
wouldnt it be fair to screen providers also then? as most aren't p411 verified
and yes i understand this hobby takes money trust me this isnt an issue if it was i would at home on the good ol hub

guess i can go back to my old stomping grounds at PT's and Sugars lol

i totally get what everyone is saying i just dont like the fact that i have to jump through hurdles just to get to see a provider of my first choice
i understand ladies have to take precaution to ensure safety no doubt but what about the johns we have to protect ourselves also
what if one day i meet a provider and things go sour for whatever reason and im out and about with say my SO and the provider wants to be a b**** and stirs up trouble
wouldnt it be fair to screen providers also then? as most aren't p411 verified
and yes i understand this hobby takes money trust me this isnt an issue if it was i would at home on the good ol hub

guess i can go back to my old stomping grounds at PT's and Sugars lol Originally Posted by deos68

And go to PT's and Sugars is free right? Sounds like this may not be for you.

And go to PT's and Sugars is free right? Sounds like this may not be for you. Originally Posted by Keyzer Soze

lol whoever said pt's and sugars is free i usually spend about 100 on entrance fee and booze let alone what i spend on the dancers
money isnt the issue for me

well thank you for the people who responded without bashing me as we all diff point of views
as stated yes it sounds silly that im on a site like this and not wanting to run wild as that isnt my style
just simply asking for advice in general
will keep looking maybe i will find a newbie provider that the feelings are mutual so i can atleast get a review or 2

thank guys and be safe out there

If moneys not an issue find the best looking newbie friendly girl and do the damn thing

Keyzer is right. Quite a few of the providers that have seen me have done so because they have seen me participate here on the boards. Also have you thought about p411? Just trying to help. Have fun.

Im so confused.
Youve been here over a year & still a newbie bc you dont have "time"
But youre a newbie also bc you dont want to "waste" money seeing a newbie friendly chic...but unfortunately theyre not yoyr cup of tea
You dont want to "waste" money on premium access to get the inside scoop on things
My guess is, you probably dont want to "waste" money on p411 also
However money is no object! And you will freely spend it on the ladies you "want" to see...
BUT ...The ladies you "want" to see....you wouldnt pass their screening bc of lack of refs ...which you dont plan to obtain bc theyre not your type.

Were you seeking advice or just to complain?
(Theres nothing wrong w venting/complaining)

I agree w the others...this may not be the hobby for you

Deos.... I'm not saying that would never happen.. but I'm willing to bet most girls (99.9%) on Eccie in San Antonio would never cause you drama if they saw you in person. If I saw you, I'd ignore you completely. What we do for the time we are together is our business and is left at the door when we leave.

Also, I've had gents send me a photo of their ID and a work badge or even paystub with pertinent info blocked out. I'm by no means malicious and would never do anything with someones personal information. I believe in karma and it shows in my blessings.

Have fun at Sugars!

i totally get what everyone is saying i just dont like the fact that i have to jump through hurdles just to get to see a provider of my first choice Originally Posted by deos68

Don't take this the wrong way, but tough shit dude. You got to pay your dues if you want what you want. This provider of your "first choice", Im guessing she requires a reference or two? Gotta break a few eggs to make that "first choice" omelette . You need a friendly newbie reference foundation here before you can start building your hobby dreams lol. Money is no object to you, but there are no newbie providers you like, tough shit again, pick one get off with her to show youre down to play the game and get that "street cred".

i understand ladies have to take precaution to ensure safety no doubt but what about the johns we have to protect ourselves also Originally Posted by deos68

Umm well that's what the reviews and alerts section is for bub. This site can only provide only so much info to help you out

what if one day i meet a provider and things go sour for whatever reason and im out and about with say my SO and the provider wants to be a b**** and stirs up trouble
wouldnt it be fair to screen providers also then?
guess i can go back to my old stomping grounds at PT's and Sugars lol Originally Posted by deos68

Whats to say a lady from PTs or Sugars wont want to be a bitch and stir up trouble?

I think your thread may have slightly rubbed some the wrong way, if not oh well it did to me. Why? Because, I (and/or we) did the so called process. Met with a newbie provider or two to get my rocks off and get reliable references to meet other providers who are not newbie friendly. But you want to come along and skip that process, you're not special sorry, play by the so called rules or go some where else.
Now with all that said, I was trying to be helpful and vent a little. I feel better. Good luck deos.

Deos if you ever get a chance to see Tracy do it! If I were you do what was said earlier and schedule a BNG with a newbie friendly provider that can help you in the future with refs. You gotta take the plunge sometime. And IMO stay away from backpage. Seeing a provider with reviews on eccie is a hell of a lot safer than a BP girl who could be LE.

Happy hunting!

Im so confused.
Youve been here over a year & still a newbie bc you dont have "time"
But youre a newbie also bc you dont want to "waste" money seeing a newbie friendly chic...but unfortunately theyre not yoyr cup of tea
You dont want to "waste" money on premium access to get the inside scoop on things
My guess is, you probably dont want to "waste" money on p411 also
However money is no object! And you will freely spend it on the ladies you "want" to see...
BUT ...The ladies you "want" to see....you wouldnt pass their screening bc of lack of refs ...which you dont plan to obtain bc theyre not your type.

Were you seeking advice or just to complain?
(Theres nothing wrong w venting/complaining)

I agree w the others...this may not be the hobby for you Originally Posted by MsPrittiKitti

+1

Aww satx <3

I agree! BP is scary.

Deos if you ever get a chance to see Tracy do it! If I were you do what was said earlier and schedule a BNG with a newbie friendly provider that can help you in the future with refs. You gotta take the plunge sometime. And IMO stay away from backpage. Seeing a provider with reviews on eccie is a hell of a lot safer than a BP girl who could be LE.

Happy hunting! Originally Posted by satx210mBack2Play

ANYBODY could be LE. Stop bashing BP.... just use commen sence (if you have any) jk..-lol-

Aww satx <3

I agree! BP is scary. Originally Posted by Tracy Auburn

How is BP "scarey" to a provider???

Um hello??? LE and psychopaths. Time wasters. I still try to screen heavy when I use BP

My common sense tells me to stay away from BP lol but to each their own whatever floats your boat, whatever tickles your pickle. Lmao