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Man you got a GF that does it ALL for you? Wtf are u doing here? Originally Posted by DonAsher

This ^^^^^^^^^^ says it all. I wake up every fucking day, and wish I was still married.

This ^^^^^^^^^^ says it all. I wake up every fucking day, and wish I was still married. Originally Posted by seedman55

I hear ya seedy but I've had that shit before too....twice!! But fuuuccckkk..... it's so much work...and in the end...they're still never happy....nothing is ever enough....why I choose this and I'm much happier....we are, what we are.

I hear ya seedy but I've had that shit before too....twice!! But fuuuccckkk..... it's so much work...and in the end...they're still never happy....nothing is ever enough....why I choose this and I'm much happier....we are, what we are. Originally Posted by Russ38

I understand Russ, I really do, but I have been there twice also, and almost a third, all were asian, and they are different. They are the most jealous women on earth, but you give them no reason to be that way, there are no problems, except the fucking hot thai peppers. Lol

This ^^^^^^^^^^ says it all. I wake up every fucking day, and wish I was still married. Originally Posted by seedman55

I understand Russ, I really do, but I have been there twice also, and almost a third, all were asian, and they are different. They are the most jealous women on earth, but you give them no reason to be that way, there are no problems, except the fucking hot thai peppers. Lol Originally Posted by seedman55

LOL seedman....I've heard about the jealousy deal with Asian women....I used to see Asians only(In the hobby)....And you know why......godamn, married to 2 or 3 of them?....you lucky bastard ....But I do understand what your saying....completely.

My SO is much smaller Than I am. And she is quite attractive in her own right, she is perfect for me, and the sex... Oh the sex, every time we have sex she cums more (my record is 11!) and when I cum I feel like the manliest man on earth despite my 5 inch woman repellent! So why do I hobby, because almost every time I want a blowjob she says "not today" or "my lips are chapped" or "I'm tired" and sometimes getting her in the mood is a bit too much work, and I give up and go to sleep. Then I'll quietly go see someone and get my nut. Marriage and hobbling can coexist with anonimity.

But she wouldn't let me fuck her in the ass.

But what did I crave? Fucking a chick hotter than her.....in the ass.
Originally Posted by SpiceItUp

Now thats a valid point.....ijs

Most gentlemen in the hobby will not stop hobbying regardless of their situation at home. Variety and excitement far outweigh love and loyalty for some.

Hopefully, your GF doesn't mind the fact that you need more than she can give. The hobby can be addictive to the guys and the ladies here. What are the odds when someone is addicted to something? Originally Posted by Reese Foster

I've always thought of it as essentially compartmentalising. The heart belongs at home with the SO, and the hobby satisfies a completely different set of needs. I'm sure no one enters this thing looking for love, that would be FUCKING INSANE, but the chance to meet new people from different walks of life and fuck 'em silly, I'd call that having fun, not necessarily an addiction. The hobby to me is a useful outlet...a relatively harmless vice.

... I'm sure no one enters this thing looking for love, that would be FUCKING INSANE.......

I'd call that having fun, not necessarily an addiction. The hobby to me is a useful outlet...a relatively harmless vice.

Originally Posted by Island_Gent

What you say is true...however...

Many of the newbies who discover our little sub-culture, be they the guys and/or the girls...find themselves in a situation where they are so overwhelmed with the variety of what's available, that they actually do end up in a state of addiction.

Now I can't speak for the ladies, but as far as the guys...some of them have never experienced the sheer volume of women at their disposal, and all it takes to bed them...is money. They experience how it feels to have their sexual fantasies become reality, and as long as they can monetarily cover the time...it never has to end.

Some will learn from experience to practice a bit of restraint while some will never grasp that concept.

When I need a break...I walk away....and those who know me, know, that has happened on more than several occasions.

Then of course you have individuals who spend what seems like...every waking moment perusing the forums in search of anything and everything that feeds their little fantasy world. So somewhere in there is a question that some may care to ask themselves...

It reminds of smokers who say "oh, I can quit anytime I want." Hmm...is that right?

When they say they're going to quit the hobby...chances are...they'll be back.

...but you give them no reason to be that way, there are no problems... Originally Posted by seedman55

How the ever loving FUCK does a guy not ever give a woman a reason to be jealous of something...they get jealous when the wind changes direction...and this is what you guys WILLINGLY step into with a binding marriage contract???

:facepalm:

Marriage is like Communism....."It only works on paper".