Posting face pics

Ya I don't think not knowing face pics arent allowed was the problem here. Pretty certain it was done intentionally and with intent to hurt. It's too bad that someone goes to that level. It's one thing to argue and have disagreements, but to intentionally hurt someone, or "out' them to their family, friends, and whoever else, is just plain wrong. Zurroch i think you are correct with your thinking.
Lexxxy's Avatar
Outing is very serious, i knew a girl that got outed by another provider so she lost her child, job, and home then took her own life. She was a mother trying to make ends meet any way she could. Some people are heartless and spiteful. Some don't think that outing or ganging up on a provider is a big deal, that's taking money away from her gas, electric, medical bills, food, childrens mouths...
I really hope that some stop and think before ruining a life or contributing to taking a life next time they are upset or think they are being funny.
Not for nothing, but her BP ads have face pics, unless they were not her.

Quitting was an overreaction if she is posting her face elsewhere.

Please note, I am not condoning posting face pics of any provider, as if a provider wishes to, they can post their own.
Carlos Danger's Avatar
Outing is very serious, i knew a girl that got outed by another provider. Originally Posted by Lexxxy
Were duos being offered?
Lexxxy's Avatar
Were duos being offered? Originally Posted by Carlos Danger
That is fucked up and ignorant to say, I expect it from you though. She was someones mom, someones child, had a private forum, and had lots of friends. She got outed by another boardmember, someone "retired" from here and there.
how funny would it be if one of your kids killed themselves? How funny would it be if a pic or video of your public indiscretion was posted somewhere? just as much as i heard about the story i also heard there were pics of it. I may be a "dumb hooktard" but I'm not dumb enough to preform a sexual act in public, with a crowed, and with Camera phones. For someone that could be outed irl by a number of people with photographic proof you sure think it's funny. How well do you think you know them and trust them? The day after someone was in my bed telling me about being there watching this. Maybe you'll get luckier than this girl was, maybe not, if not i hope some of the dbags here are a bit more sympathetic towards you than you are towards others.
every single one of us here have skeletons in our closets then we stuffed more in by joining, participating, and stuff another one in with every person we meet in the hobby. There are these 2 gallic sayings my grandma had "may your closet be a vast peaceful graveyard so your skeletons rest in peace" and "may you be in heaven 15 minutes before the devil knows you're dead."
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i knew a girl that got outed by another provider so she ... took her own life. . Originally Posted by Lexxxy
You're making wild accusations.
Lexxxy's Avatar
No I'm not, 100% fact, it was written about in her forum by her and i have a pm from her warning me about who outed her. STFU and stop being an ass about something so serious that affected a lot of lives.
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http://www.indys.com/forum/viewforum.php?f=255
Wed Feb 16, 2011 11:38 am
"Other than a few on here that remembered that I have feelings too, ########### however did not.*"
*Tue Feb 22, 2011 4:30 pm
"very sweet lady...good friend too. i hope someone takes real good care of her 1 year old son."
Carlos Danger's Avatar
Makes no sense dragging that up like u did, if sensitivity is really your concern. Enough hearsay, who axed for your morality on public sex anyway...more irrelevance.
the potential for outing can come in several forms..

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I'm glad poplips was a shy nervous well behaved Gent when I met him. I would have never guessed he was an ass that likes to waste Ladies time and money.

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Lexxxy, I'm 100% sure we never met!

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Yes I did UTR according to my old duo partner. I could get into graphics if you would like.

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No lexxxy I never met u. Please include graphics if u want. I'm looking at ur showcase and there is nothing familiar about u. I'm sorry. U must have me confused with someone. Post my age.
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Makes no sense dragging that up like u did, if sensitivity is really your concern. Enough hearsay, who axed for your morality on public sex anyway...more irrelevance. Originally Posted by Carlos Danger
Said the king of irrelevance...
DDarkness's Avatar
THis thread is about the potential effects of posting face pics!

Please keep this civil!

Lexxxy the situation you are describing is a travesty!

DD
cowboy8055's Avatar
THis thread is about the potential effects of posting face pics!

Please keep this civil! Originally Posted by DDarkness
Good luck with that. When is anything civil on here. Sometimes it's hard to believe this is an adult website. More like a high school cafeteria.
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Good luck with that. When is anything civil on here. Sometimes it's hard to believe this is an adult website. More like a high school cafeteria. Originally Posted by cowboy8055
Second that.
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