SL, does having all those reviews hurt you? I've spoken to many ladies and say that the potential of having a poison stick is on their minds with a very active member. So does it really matter how YOU pm anyone? It's a legitimate question Originally Posted by newcumerzI have had ladies decide not to see me because they were worried I was too high profile and if something went wrong it might effect them in a very negative way. I have had more decide not to see me when I tell them I'm bring my digital scale. But for the most part I'm non-GFE and super safe so I've never had someone tell me that. The reviews are not as big an issue as much as how much I hobby.