Clarification and a different perspective on my screening

P411 May do That suggestion doesn't mean we have to accept it Originally Posted by VictoriaJolie

Good luck with that.

When you go to liquor store do you tape your ID?
When you buy cigarette ?When you buy an item by credit card at the store
You don't know the cashier ...Does it cross your mind that she may like you and memorize your address etc absurd no? Yet some identity has been stole or cc duplicate
You assume that the store know their employees and that they will be professional even though you don't know anything about the person Originally Posted by VictoriaJolie

It's easy to explain to a SO that an unscrupulous employee at a store got your credit card info. A hooker, not so much.

While I may not want to post all my info out there for the world to see. I totally agree that the lady you are seeing has the right to know your real name. I worry about my SO catching me doing things but really when it comes down to it. You are trusting this lady with your man hood. If you can trust her with that why would you worry about something else? I mean how would you explain to a SO that some crazy cashier bit your manhood off?

I think some of my clarification got lost
I do screen..I have several ways to do..I was referring to p411 members
I am up front on my p411. Ads about my requirement and all along the process of booking ..The person choose or not to visit me I don't force anyone..and would like the same in return.When someone show up knowing that he gave me a fake name and know that I request Id..isn't respecting my choice
I don't tell other ladies how to screen ;each individual can do what they want.

As for taping ID or hiding info on your ID never heard or encounter anyone to the exception of one..which look suspicious as if it's the same individual than the one that contact you on p411 especially with different name.P411 May do That suggestion doesn't mean we have to accept it
I've been a member with them since 07
When you go to liquor store do you tape your ID?
When you buy cigarette ?When you buy an item by credit card at the store
You don't know the cashier ...Does it cross your mind that she may like you and memorize your address etc absurd no? Yet some identity has been stole or cc duplicate
You assume that the store know their employees and that they will be professional even though you don't know anything about the person
I've been a companion since 04.. You can google me..read many reviews about me

When someone act suspicious in general customs border,stores will pay more attention to you
Anyway

I'm all for Vivre et laisser vivre my tour was a lot of fun and met some wonderful people
Thank you! Originally Posted by VictoriaJolie

From P411:

https://www.preferred411.com/index.cfm?fx=FAQ

Q. A provider asked to see my identification... whats that about?
A. Your Client Id is made up of small bits of real info that can be verified by the provider, by looking at a couple of pieces of identification carried in your wallet.

Example:
John-01-a-0000
John is a name showing on drivers license.
01 is DAY of birth showing on drivers license.
0000 is last four digits on something you carry in your wallet.

I often recommend that gentlemen temporarily cover the other private information with tape or whiteout, leaving only the photo, matching name, and DAY of birth (on drivers license) and last four digits (on something in wallet) for the provider to check. Of course, its always a good idea to let the provider know you are going to cover the other information, in case her personal policy would not allow for this.

If you schedule an appointment via P411 and upon arrival refuse to show identification to confirm you are the true account holder, please understand that your provider may exercise her right to refuse to see you. Also keep in mind that your provider has an obligation to report this to P411. Depending on the circumstances, P411 may suspend the account under which the appointment was made until the situation is resolved….

The purpose of P411 and other screening services is to maintain anonymity while verifying the client and provider are legit. Asking for more information, while a prerogative of the lady, is not required by the screening service and, in essence, negates the reason for using services like this in the first place. If an appointment is set up with John-01-a-0000 then showing an ID which displays just this information and only this information is all that is needed to be shown and should be acceptable to the provider.

There are many psycho people in this hobby, male and female, and all it takes is a quick glance to see and remember someone's name, then stalk them and/or cause them trouble.

From P411:

https://www.preferred411.com/index.cfm?fx=FAQ

Q. A provider asked to see my identification... whats that about?
A. Your Client Id is made up of small bits of real info that can be verified by the provider, by looking at a couple of pieces of identification carried in your wallet.

Example:
John-01-a-0000
John is a name showing on drivers license.
01 is DAY of birth showing on drivers license.
0000 is last four digits on something you carry in your wallet.

I often recommend that gentlemen temporarily cover the other private information with tape or whiteout, leaving only the photo, matching name, and DAY of birth (on drivers license) and last four digits (on something in wallet) for the provider to check. Of course, its always a good idea to let the provider know you are going to cover the other information, in case her personal policy would not allow for this.

If you schedule an appointment via P411 and upon arrival refuse to show identification to confirm you are the true account holder, please understand that your provider may exercise her right to refuse to see you. Also keep in mind that your provider has an obligation to report this to P411. Depending on the circumstances, P411 may suspend the account under which the appointment was made until the situation is resolved….

The purpose of P411 and other screening services is to maintain anonymity while verifying the client and provider are legit. Asking for more information, while a prerogative of the lady, is not required by the screening service and, in essence, negates the reason for using services like this in the first place. If an appointment is set up with John-01-a-0000 then showing an ID which displays just this information and only this information is all that is needed to be shown and should be acceptable to the provider.

There are many psycho people in this hobby, male and female, and all it takes is a quick glance to see and remember someone's name, then stalk them and/or cause them trouble. Originally Posted by pornodave69

Actually your quote of Gina is right she did post that this where I told you we aren't obligated to her suggestions ..and the only time someone felt compelled to hide his info and not have provided the same name I did exactly what Gina asked..I let them know about the incident which lead to someone trying to ruin.my name since..which make my think I was right


Verification services are tools to facilitate screening..nowhere any of those services obligate us to use them and on their terms ...I know several ladies not comfortable with those verification services.
Some others may asked additional info
Personally I believe that date-check and p411 we're create to speed the process of reference check which not all ladies are prompt with or agree with

It doesn't change fact that nothing is full proof which some of you that are p411 may have notice okay can no longer be given by the provider..the client need to send a request with info on the date and we have to put the date we saw the gent...so some ladies were given okays without meeting the gent for points

As a provider we have obligation with them when advertise to respond in a certain delay to verification requests

As client..us can be suspended for blackmailed,requesting fake okay or severe warning as we are...

P411 is fairly popular in severals areas..Other place people are more comfortable with date-check or room service 2000

And some ladies will not take any and just verify you by works or references

Last sir I agree with you they are sicko out there..however my post was about me...

If someone that has read reviews..comments,pmed guys that has met me..still not comfortable..They shouldn't meet me.
That is very simple
I don't ask everyone to accept or agree with what I ask..I think I still have a fair amount of good records with 171 okays considering I am from Canada so it mean those people in USA (as it is not illegal In Canada and only gave once an okay to a guy in Canada from Canada)had no problem meeting me on my term
Maybe Louisiana is different than all over USA..Then maybe less guy will see me..It's okay..while I enjoyed the cities there..it's like some other city I go like but have little expectations..This is a big world..Canada USA Uk France etc..



So if per example someone has a chip on their shoulder because I refused them as they refused to provide info or hide them as well as giving different name ..I wasn't comfortable and I tell p411 requirement sequence as what hey ask : to just let it go..If they are so driving to destroy my rep it actually affect me and my family..which you questions was I right to decline them..where they hidden something because they are that type personality? I heard often gossip very inaccurate gossip from those that I declined ...for me it confirm the say you re worried when you are the worst

I take care of my folks and false rumors or alerts could affect me badly ..the reason I am forward

I'm honest
I'm forward
I have. Requirement of screening
Which some other ladies have requirement of race,age which I don't


Great for all inputs..I'm done
You can't change people..even you give the. Logic informations ..if they can't understand..they can't
Merry Christmas !
Bisous
Victoria

You have to give up information in many cases to join P411 or other screening services. It is odd to have to show your identification, when you have a good reputation on various boards and your screening goes well no matter what.

To then be asked to show identification is not only insulting, it disregards all the other info you have used for years to pass other females screening. I think this would be a problem if more girls had such a requirement.

VJ having a good reputation and being from another country and very attractive.........Makes some guys do things they would not normally do....................and just becasue some of them have chimed in on this thread................

Doesn't make me anymore comfortable about going in to see someone that wants to clearly indentifiy me, the risk is not worth it and you don't have the market cornered on a good fucking time..........I'm just saying.................

You have to give up information in many cases to join P411 or other screening services. It is odd to have to show your identification, when you have a good reputation on various boards and your screening goes well no matter what.

To then be asked to show identification is not only insulting, it disregards all the other info you have used for years to pass other females screening. I think this would be a problem if more girls had such a requirement.

VJ having a good reputation and being from another country and very attractive.........Makes some guys do things they would not normally do....................and just becasue some of them have chimed in on this thread................

Doesn't make me anymore comfortable about going in to see someone that wants to clearly indentifiy me, the risk is not worth it and you don't have the market cornered on a good fucking time..........I'm just saying................. Originally Posted by SOULMANIKE

Plus mother fathering 1.