provider sighted again

theshortone's Avatar
I miss them aspd days.......
surcher's Avatar
I miss them aspd days....... Originally Posted by theshortone
I miss many of the women! Socials were good too.


This is a revelation to you, providers looking for a normal relationship? They are women, many mothers and divorcees. There are so many women on multiple dating sites I wouldn't be surprised to come across a provider if I was on those sites. I don't waste my time anymore. Once I told them I was in a wheelchair it was usually the last reply. I decided to put it in the description and never got a reply, except the ones working for the site trying to get you to break out the credit card.
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EXACTLY>
But different sh%* for different ppl
Uh...I don't know what strippers you're referring to because meeting with strippers OTC and knowing their "real name" happens pretty frequently round these parts Originally Posted by DickEmDown

You read my mind LOL IDK this post was a little off... kind of like....ummmmmm escorts/providers/hobbyist have civi-lifes'

Move along.... there aint nothing to see here LOL
Originally Posted by Dorian Gray
I miss many of the women! Socials were good too.


This is a revelation to you, providers looking for a normal relationship? They are women, many mothers and divorcees. There are so many women on multiple dating sites I wouldn't be surprised to come across a provider if I was on those sites. I don't waste my time anymore. Once I told them I was in a wheelchair it was usually the last reply. I decided to put it in the description and never got a reply, except the ones working for the site trying to get you to break out the credit card. Originally Posted by surcher
I have to admit I have a little thing about guys in wheelchairs...rawwwwrrrr. I'd be so excited if I just happened across a wheelchair guy on match.com. Especially if I'd already made a connection. It'd be like a bonus prize.
She is entitled to her privacy. I saw a regular on a dating site before, after we both laughed about that run in, he asked if I was available and we hooked up. But to post it as a public event on eccie is wrong. Many of us single gals are on dating sites just for that reason, to date.
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I have to admit I have a little thing about guys in wheelchairs...rawwwwrrrr. I'd be so excited if I just happened across a wheelchair guy on match.com. Especially if I'd already made a connection. It'd be like a bonus prize. Originally Posted by LilMynx69
Who needs match.com, you have me here! Isn't this a date site too?!!
Who needs match.com, you have me here! Isn't this a date site too?!! Originally Posted by surcher
It's not the first time I've noticed you, Surcher...it's just the first time I noticed this additional little factoid about you...

I met my first husband on ASPD...so, yes, this could qualify as a dating site!
gentlehobbiest's Avatar
I will reply later on this post. I recently met a lady on match. Com that completely changedy life forever. I was a good guy!! Trusted, honored, respected woman and was looking for my wife. I wanted somethingv real after a lifetime of being a play boy. I met someone that instantly blew me away. After I fell in love with her and she saying we should plan for forever, she informed m e that she was a provider and was wanting to quit the bisiness. I was reluctant to continue with her but I was already in love. I gave her a chance and our love grew stronger. After I met her family and all her friends she started playing games and it was shortly over. Ladies I agree that you all need and want a relationship in your personal life. But don't mislead good men. I'm a cool guy and could of handled any type of arrangement. This woman has devastated my life by not even having a conversation with me. I dont know if my dream of real love coming true is actually real or of it was a total session? She introduced this lifestyle to me and now I'm afraid its all I will ever have. My life is nothing without her now. I'm so depressed without my boo. I asked her to explain to me why so I can heal. She won't even respond. In end this was the love of my life!! I think?? Totally depressed and lost forever.. its been five months since breaking up and its just like yesterday. I hate games. I'm trying to LOVE LIFE! GH
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I will reply later on this post. I recently met a lady on match. Com that completely changedy life forever. I was a good guy!! Trusted, honored, respected woman and was looking for my wife. I wanted somethingv real after a lifetime of being a play boy. I met someone that instantly blew me away. After I fell in love with her and she saying we should plan for forever, she informed m e that she was a provider and was wanting to quit the bisiness. I was reluctant to continue with her but I was already in love. I gave her a chance and our love grew stronger. After I met her family and all her friends she started playing games and it was shortly over. Ladies I agree that you all need and want a relationship in your personal life. But don't mislead good men. I'm a cool guy and could of handled any type of arrangement. This woman has devastated my life by not even having a conversation with me. I dont know if my dream of real love coming true is actually real or of it was a total session? She introduced this lifestyle to me and now I'm afraid its all I will ever have. My life is nothing without her now. I'm so depressed without my boo. I asked her to explain to me why so I can heal. She won't even respond. In end this was the love of my life!! I think?? Totally depressed and lost forever.. its been five months since breaking up and its just like yesterday. I hate games. I'm trying to LOVE LIFE! GH Originally Posted by gentlehobbiest
You really need to move on.........seriously! She's in your past, it's time you left her there and close it yourself.
I just saw a stripper friend at the Texans game all dolled up. she was with her dude so I just winked and kept it moving.
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I will reply later on this post. I recently met a lady on match. Com that completely changedy life forever. I was a good guy!! Trusted, honored, respected woman and was looking for my wife. I wanted somethingv real after a lifetime of being a play boy. I met someone that instantly blew me away. After I fell in love with her and she saying we should plan for forever, she informed m e that she was a provider and was wanting to quit the bisiness. I was reluctant to continue with her but I was already in love. I gave her a chance and our love grew stronger. After I met her family and all her friends she started playing games and it was shortly over. Ladies I agree that you all need and want a relationship in your personal life. But don't mislead good men. I'm a cool guy and could of handled any type of arrangement. This woman has devastated my life by not even having a conversation with me. I dont know if my dream of real love coming true is actually real or of it was a total session? She introduced this lifestyle to me and now I'm afraid its all I will ever have. My life is nothing without her now. I'm so depressed without my boo. I asked her to explain to me why so I can heal. She won't even respond. In end this was the love of my life!! I think?? Totally depressed and lost forever.. its been five months since breaking up and its just like yesterday. I hate games. I'm trying to LOVE LIFE! GH Originally Posted by gentlehobbiest
It doesn't sound like things ended because you found out she's a provider. as you pointed out thing changed after you met her friends and family not after she told you about her hobby life. you got closer and things got serious once you met the important people in her life and sounds like she freaked out and pushed you away.

but your break up had nothing to do with her either concealing or revealing her provider status. obvious your relationship was not a "total session"
and it sounds like you might be drowning your sorrows in this hobby like some people do with alcohol.
frankocean187's Avatar
I have seen many on fling/pof/tinder....
pyramider's Avatar
How would you recognize the provider without taint photos?