A question about doubles

Usually not, but not always because the girls insist on a change. More often it's because of a new activity that takes place in between the need to be covered. Originally Posted by PDid

I remember one time with Dallas, PDid, and I that the room was like a bomb went off with toys and used rubbers all over the place, it was quite comical!

Just the thought of Aiyanna playing with another woman is enough to put lead in my pencil!!!!! She is on my very short bucket list ;-)

I remember one time with Dallas, PDid, and I that the room was like a bomb went off with toys and used rubbers all over the place, it was quite comical! Originally Posted by DDMcGee

A bomb did go off, I assure you!

I remember a certain hobbyist asking you this question at a function

I'm glad you started a thread on it.

As I stated, it was a surprise to me when I learned that doubles, on the ladies end, were usually a means of introducing a new provider to the hobby.

Not that that is a bad thing. My first doubles had a major change on my life that I am thankful for to this day.
(You know who you are )

SKF: I'm just glad I got away with not wearing the leash this time. =^_^= couldn't you just see her yanking me around everywhere with a gleeful smile? Haha!
I had a bottle of wine with grandma a couple nights ago, as she told me old Harley stories...my grandfather looking down her shirt the whole time. Lmao!
^_~ Originally Posted by AiyannaNeko

Are you kidding me, she would have probably given you whiplash from yanking the leash for you trying to venture too far away from her.
I'm glad she didn't make you wear it too!
(Although, you could get your own starring role in your very own Wayne Wright commercial. "My name is Aiyanna Neko and Wayne Wright got me $138.27 for my pain and suffering when my love-muffin yanked my leash and gave me whiplash. Thanks Wayne Wright!"
Heh!

And aren't you just the best grandaughter in the history of ever! Getting grammy all tanked so gumpa can tap it. You awright Aiyanna Neko. F'real!

Soon. I'm just sayin'.

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AiyannaNeko, now you see what I was talking about the other day. Girl on girl is not always the norm in a double, which is why it is important to ask beforehand. I'm also excited by your answers to specific activities we discussed. Looking forward to it. Take care

I would mind being between u two ladies thats for sure....

I don't get having doubles with no girl on girl...isn't that part of the experience.

I looove me some of that sweet nectar! Snow Kitty and I love playing with each other! In fact we usually start before our time with our date for some one on one action ourselves...hehehe


have fun and get ur $ worth!

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I don't get having doubles with no girl on girl...isn't that part of the experience.

have fun and get ur $ worth!

<3LL Originally Posted by *LusciousLeo*

What she said!

My first doubles in San Antonio was very much like a tag team wrestling event. One girl sat on the edge of the bed, waiting to be tagged into the action. Then the other went to sitting on the edge of the bed. It was very weird.

Since then I have made it my practice to inquire as to what I should expect, and if the participants really enjoy what they are doing. If the girls are going to be playing with each other, I would really hope they are enjoying it and not just pretending. I have been told by a favorite of mine who is bi that there are times when a session is going to be all about me, but she added it would be two girls attacking ME simultaneously, for the duration of the time we have together. I came close to experiencing this with Janele and Cianna. While they did play with each other a bit, they absolutely devoured me as a team.

I don't get having doubles with no girl on girl...isn't that part of the experience.

I looove me some of that sweet nectar! Snow Kitty and I love playing with each other! In fact we usually start before our time with our date for some one on one action ourselves...hehehe


have fun and get ur $ worth!

<3LL Originally Posted by *LusciousLeo*

↑ this is what I've always thought too, but judging by the number of inquiries we've had on the subject obviously it happens more often than one would think.

As for me, that just seems uncomfortable to have a sex partner who you don't interact with. That's half the fun of doubles, and the main reason I'm so lucky about who i would/wouldn't do a doubles session with. I've known Aiyanna forever and a day, we're comfortable with each other AND we're both bi, so all that factors into the fun we have in doubles. At the same time neither of us want the guy to feel left out, so we've been reluctant to just jump into it with each other without a little direction. Now that we know you guys are into that .... lol, all bets are off! -^_~-

Are you kidding me, she would have probably given you whiplash from yanking the leash for you trying to venture too far away from her.
I'm glad she didn't make you wear it too!
(Although, you could get your own starring role in your very own Wayne Wright commercial. "My name is Aiyanna Neko and Wayne Wright got me $138.27 for my pain and suffering when my love-muffin yanked my leash and gave me whiplash. Thanks Wayne Wright!"
Heh!

And aren't you just the best grandaughter in the history of ever! Getting grammy all tanked so gumpa can tap it. You awright Aiyanna Neko. F'real!

Soon. I'm just sayin'.



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Originally Posted by SofaKingFun

lol. Okay, so I may have a bit of social anxiety in large group settings. Are you suggesting that I use Aiyanna as my own little security kitty? (Because i totally do. Lol. Gotta break that habit! )

This is such a great thread, because it illuminates aspects of our world. By way of full disclosure, I've not played with anyone who has commented so far.

I think we need to adapt the aphorism about real estate (i.e. what counts is 'location, location, location'). In the hobby what counts is 'honesty, honesty , honesty' with respect to what we're looking for & what we're prepared to enjoy.)

lol. Okay, so I may have a bit of social anxiety in large group settings. Are you suggesting that I use Aiyanna as my own little security kitty? (Because i totally do. Lol. Gotta break that habit! ) Originally Posted by Kit_Kat

Aww, babe, you were fine. Really. (really fine, too *winks*) But it was funny as hell that you kept her within arms reach. "Security kitty"? That's too funny....even funnier than you patting her on the head. But now that you mention it, it makes perfect sense.

Those anxiety issues can be a bitch. So I understand what you mean. I used to have similar issues. In fact,
I actually called a security company one time because I was feeling insecure...they called me a weird-o, so I just dealt with it the best way I knew how....I said screw it and realized that it's these little quirks that makes us each unique and special.

It can be a tough hurdle to overcome but it's not impossible. The best approach might be to start off with a small number of people...say three, for example....ehhh...It's too difficult to describe. It's easier if I just showed you...and you can even bring your security kitty...trust me, it'll be fun!


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Just the thought of Aiyanna playing with another woman is enough to put lead in my pencil!!!!! She is on my very short bucket list ;-) Originally Posted by j_mack4u

Awww, how sweet! Thank ya! Meow! =^_^=

SKF: ha! That would be awesome! I'd have to do the Smile (with twinkle) and thumbs up, like the Career Point commercials for that.

And yes, my grandfather better get me an awesome Christmas present for all the help ^_~

Bmerazi: yup. Now I have a broader perspective. I had to ask. You know what they say about the cat and curiosity ;p I am too. Fun to be had by all! =^_^=

Me? Security? I couldn't hurt a fly! *strikes an innocent look and pose*