Unprotected Sex

Yep and look at all the providers that "stripper slide". That exposes you to anything that you would get from bbfs... You also cant tell me that the stripper slide always stays on the outside.

For me BBFS is only with a monogamous SO as many have stated. I have seen the behavior in civilian world, and it scares the hell out of me. I have never left a club with someone that I did not arrive with. Ewww I've done enough research on the consequences of UTF, and I'm comfy with my decision. Stripper pole, ewww. What is the difference in that and BBFS? And for the guys... you would be surprised how often we are begged for SS and BBFS, because "I am clean" or "I just can't cum with a cover". It's often, unfortunately. Thank gosh most guys are responsible and respectable.

Would anyone be willing to address these specific questions?

I was wondering today about scenarios that would make having unprotected sex OK.

What are the requirements?

As a married man, or a man with a SO, if you were to say unprotected sex feels so much better and if you were bound and determined to make it work with blonde bombshell down the way, what would have to happen in order for you to proceed with no longer using condoms?

As a married woman, or woman with a SO, what would you require before having unprotected sex with a man? Originally Posted by PleasantSurprise

No

I'm curious .whats the difference between bareback intercourse and cim and swallow?

I'm curious .whats the difference between bareback intercourse and cim and swallow? Originally Posted by Lubeman

^^^ you are off topic sir.

Would anyone be willing to address these specific questions? Originally Posted by PleasantSurprise

I think in so many words, you've got lots of answers. Most have said it's not ok in the hobby under any circumstances.

That being said, I'm sure there is a non vocal group that think otherwise. You could always determine your own set of circumstances if youre interested in providing BBFS and post them and see if anyone is interested in meeting them.

I wouldn't consider BBFS as a client (Hell I rarely do CFS as a client) but if I was going to, I think I would need to SEE no less than 6 consecutive months of WEEKLY negative STD/HIV testing and then need to be seen within 2 days of the last report.

All ready to be blasted for that.

I'm sorry I was just curious. I didn't mean to get off topic.

Would anyone be willing to address these specific questions? Originally Posted by PleasantSurprise

Honestly, this is one topic where you will not get open honest answers on here.

^^^ you are off topic sir.

Originally Posted by LeilaniBebe

I don't know that he's off topic, just that he didn't use any context.

Ive seen that as an argument for BBFS plenty of times. Someone will chime in quoting a study where it shows the risk of BB Oral is much lower for disease transmission is much lower than BB anal/vaginal intercourse. Someone else will quote an opposing study and we'll be right back where we are.

The bottom line seems to be - no BBFS while participating in the hobby; only bareback with your SO. Proceed at your own risk.

Your answer.......knowledge & trust. But I think you already know that Pleasant Surprise.

Would anyone be willing to address these specific questions? Originally Posted by PleasantSurprise

I'm not married and I don't have an SO, so the question doesn't apply to those like me correct?

I think most have answered the question directly however.

You could always determine your own set of circumstances if youre interested in providing BBFS and post them and see if anyone is interested in meeting them. Originally Posted by paragod

Oh holy shit hell no! Definitely not interested in ditching the condom. I'm not a fucking idiot lol. Please don't take that personally, only voicing the first thing that comes to mind. Eek! No condom = asking for trouble.

Most have said it's not ok in the hobby under any circumstances. Originally Posted by paragod

For BBFS "not ok in the hobby" under any circumstances.

Would this mean no condom IS ok elsewhere?

If monogamy is the only case to not use a condom, how do married men get away with no condom with their wife? After all, a client isn't exactly monogamous...

I wouldn't consider BBFS as a client (Hell I rarely do CFS as a client) but if I was going to, I think I would need to SEE no less than 6 consecutive months of WEEKLY negative STD/HIV testing and then need to be seen within 2 days of the last report.

All ready to be blasted for that. Originally Posted by paragod

I really like your comment here. You made it clear you wouldn't consider BBFS, then you proceed to say "but if I was going to." I really like how you put it. Thank you for stepping outside of the box in your thinking. You remind me of this quote...

"It is the mark of an educated mind to be able to entertain a thought without accepting it." - Aristotle

I have been offered BBFS in the hobby and whipped out my own condom...