Have you ever been turned down by a provider at the door because of your looks

1sthandsonguy's Avatar
I have never felt this way based on looks...I'm a trooper

However, I have been near throat-punching myself for repeating with a guy whose creep-factor was through the roof the first time. I saw him at the beginning of my provider days and was contacted again by him almost a year later. I chalked it up to my being new the first time and not knowing how to handle different personalities...NOPE...

He was just as creepy the second time as he was the first...smh (proverbial self-throat-punch)! Originally Posted by YummyMarie
Please, when we do meet...NEVER give me your trooper face. Ignorance is indeed bliss! LOL
what about old, fat, and ugly
what about old, fat, and ugly Originally Posted by peevee0931
a.k.a...."normal"
Samcro84's Avatar
Not at the door, had trouble getting to door lately with the NCNS and not call back issues.

Ready to spend money and no where to go.
Guest010115-3's Avatar
Nope, never happened, but my signature says I don't see nba women and some Asians have said no just coz of that signature line They never really tell u though. It's always a yes, u passed screening and when u get close enough to get the apt # or direct address based on the two call system, they suddenly have an emergency. I call it the classic BS.
tbone77494's Avatar
I've asked a few if they have ever looked through the peep hole and just said "oh, hell no.". No one has admitted to it, but I know if roles were reversed I would pass on some of us fat, ugly dudes.
LexusLover's Avatar
I guess we all have standards ... from time to time.
The only men I've heard tell a story of getting turned away at the door, it was simply based on skin color. After (obviously lax) screening.


I have never heard of anything else. I think it's obnoxious and rude to turn away someone at the door. Originally Posted by LilMynx69

I'm with you there. If he made me comfortable enough to invite him, I won't turn him away. Phone etiquette goes a long way with screening.
blowpop's Avatar
Hasn't happened yet.
LexusLover's Avatar
Hasn't happened yet. Originally Posted by blowpop
Does not getting through the gate count?
Please, when we do meet...NEVER give me your trooper face. Ignorance is indeed bliss! LOL Originally Posted by 1sthandsonguy
I'll keep that in mind, LOL
It has never happened, and hopefully it won't. But never say never..
emo-alone's Avatar
How about when the provider meets with an attractive and fit guy? is it like "Score! this is gonna be a fun!"? When I use to deliver pizza in college I remember the excitement of delivering to hot chicks vs grump old dudes.
I was turned down. It was about 5 yrs ago. I messaged this one lady on ASPD, she was visiting done Dallas. Having been a newbie and never seen any providers before, she agreed that she would see me. I drive all the way down to the galleria, parked, called her, went up to her hotel room like up on the 15th floor or something. Knocked, and she let me in. She asked me how old I was, I told her 23 or something, even showed her my license. She asked me to get comfortable. I sat down and she asked me to tell her about myself. I was nervous of course but I started telling her about me and being a college student. After about 2 minutes she turned to me and said, I'm sorry but this isn't going to work out and asked me to leave. I was surprised so I left. At least I still had my donation. Of course I had my hair in a ponytail and probably looked 16. I decided from then on not to waste my time driving all the way from conroe all the way down to the galleria for trim and get rejected. If I get rejected, atleast let it happen closer to home so I don't waste gas lol.
CivilBarrister's Avatar
Many years ago, I had a friend who was around 500 lb. Yea, a BIG guy. He used to get turned down at the door all the time. He finally asked me to write girls and put in a good word for him, AND tell them a bout his size.

About half agreed to see him, the rest thanked me for the heads up on his size. Sadly even some of the girls would would see him would call me after and tell me they didn't want to see him again

I have had girls look at little cb after undressing and laugh, asking who I thought I was going to please with that thing.

I would just point, smile and say "me!"