New Pet Peeve

I sure have been in some pretty grimey 4 star hotels.

Most of those sites are hosted in the countries where these services are legal. Problem with ladies using them here in USA is more of legal issue rather than using descriptions as services

Lina Originally Posted by Sensual Lina

Exactly!

While these sites are in foreign countries such that, normally, the existence of the specifics of "I'll blow you for $300" does not in and of itself constitute a crime; such specific information CAN and DOES constitute probable cause to justify warrants for things like wiretaps.

Typically, LE has bigger fish to fry. But if they don't and they are bored; a site that says that a lady will perform specific sex acts for a specific price could easily justify a warrant; even though by virtue of being located outside of the U.S. it doesn't constitute a crime in and of itself. (If it WERE hosted in the U.S. it could easily serve as basis for a solicitation charge in and of itself.)

A provider's anonymity is entirely illusory. It is basically a gentleman's agreement between providers and hobbyists; and it can be compromised in minutes by LE with a warrant or in a couple of weeks at most by a motivated hobbyist (or hobbyist's wife) who knows what they are doing using completely legal channels.

For this reason, it is my opinion (and only an opinion) that providers ought not list specific sex acts on their site.

Probably, 99.9% of the time, because cops have bigger fish to fry, even outright stating sex acts and prices has no adverse effect. However, it COULD. Which is why I'd advise against it. This is especially the case for providers with disgruntled ex husbands, etc.

I personally know a provider whose ex-boyfriend got a hair across his butt and printed off copies of her site and sent them to the local police. At its peak, probably 1 out of every 4 contacts she had was some sort of setup. Once she came very close to getting nailed. It has died down now, but for months she was practically out of business.

Obviously, providers are in business and they have to balance a lot of stuff -- risk/reward, etc. So I'm not telling anyone how to run her business.

But if a provider were my sister, I would advise her to keep those sorts of specifics off her site.

My problem is when a provider lists as services provided the following: 5 Star Level Escort or A Level Escort. First, those aren't services provided; those are descriptions. Second, those terms are so subjective that is is laughable. Who determines what a 5 Star Level Escort is? I know that I have a certain definition and it probably is wildly different than another's. Just my little rant for the day. Originally Posted by Cpalmson

I'm a 5 Star Level & an A Level escort!

Oh no, wait....I can't be.... I nqns & I do greek....well, there goes that idea!

Personally, I would think a lady claiming to be high class are the same ones that claim YMMV, or have a limited menu. I really don't know though, does anyone have input on this?

I've got a new pet peeve ... when a provider lists as services ... 5 Star Level Escort or A Level Escort ... those terms are so subjective that is is laughable. Originally Posted by Cpalmson

Yes, I agree -- I think they are silly. It's not as if a lady takes a standardized test, meets a specific third-party qualification or gets an award based upon meritorious recognition by an objective third party.

Obviously, it is an attempt to say: "I am somehow better at being an escort than ladies who don't label themselves this way." Maybe it is true, maybe it isn't. Who knows?

I put this in the same category as a provider labeling herself classy, etc.

In general, if a lady is classy and/or a top-notch escort, that is conveyed implicitly in a dozen subtle ways; and also via her reputation and reviews.

I don't think the fact that a lady uses these words or descriptions precludes their applicability; I just don't think it is meaningful. They might be true from my own subjective experience, or they might not.

Those words don't really peeve me, they simply don't register as meaningful.

I am currently in the process of updating my website and am working on the text right now. I don't want to necessarily provide a menu of services for safety reasons, but what if a lady uses other terms that give you a concise picture of what you will be getting?

Say something like... "Cruises to club med require at least a 2 hour consultation and an additional tip of $100"

Would that pet your peeve?

I am currently in the process of updating my website and am working on the text right now. I don't want to necessarily provide a menu of services for safety reasons, but what if a lady uses other terms that give you a concise picture of what you will be getting?

Say something like... "Cruises to club med require at least a 2 hour consultation and an additional tip of $100"

Would that pet your peeve?
Originally Posted by AidanMacKenna

Those lines are os wide open, a blind man could read between them

Sure something like that is much more informative than "A-Level Service" or "5 Star Escort".