What's an acceptable amount to pay

Valid points made on several sides of thisc . . . .

I still gotta think that doing some research and scheduling with someone known to dress well, look good (to you) and is well thought of by other hobbyists would take care of most of these problems.

Thats what ECCIE ishere for.

If I go to her incall (and I'd never, ever invite a provider to my place) and she's much different than advertised, I don't give her a dime. I see zero reason to reward deceptive advertising. If she's only slightly different (say, year old pictures and she's gained 10 lbs) then I either go through with the session or tell her "I don't think we're a good fit" and give her $20 for her time.

If I were to invite a provider to my place and had this happen, I'd give her the minimum required to go away without causing me problems, and then I'd hit myself on the head with a 2x4 and remind myself to never, ever bring a provider to my home again. Originally Posted by blowpop

Good point BP..! You are paying to limit your risk.

Still, if a plumber shows up at my place with muddy boots to do a job...they don't get in at all...(Hell, they must be diseased ridden unworthy lowlifes cause they are only charging 75-100/hr anyway).

To improve the overall plumbing business, a call to the BBB (ECCIE) with details of this stupid, unprofessional, timewasting asshole should be done by everyone. PUT THEM OUT OF BUSINESS. And the BBB should log that complaint and contact the vendor to help them improve their services...or remove them from verified provider status...uhh...the BBB certified lists.

Valid points made on several sides of thisc . . . .

I still gotta think that doing some research and scheduling with someone known to dress well, look good (to you) and is well thought of by other hobbyists would take care of most of these problems.

Thats what ECCIE ishere for. Originally Posted by ICU 812

If, that is what ECCIE is for...there seems to be very regular and serious, sometimes total failures with this operation...(just read the forums) we constantly hear of providers on here who are not what appears in their showcase.

To me...anyone charging over .5 should at least look like the pics they advertise.

But then again...lots of people are happy with a CHJ for $200...as long as they had a good time. HA!!

Maybe more uninformed assholes will buy from them since they have all those +1s and YES reviews.

Just thoughts for the new year...use your money effectively.

L8r
r9

I do carry my things with me for a just In case moment. I never wanna read unmentionable things about my service.

Now this is good exchange. I thought about 20-50 at best.
In this particular case, it wasn't a TOFTT. It's a provider who has a few good reviews.

Should the provider always tell the customer, I'm not exactly meeting ready, but if I can have more time, I have things withme?

Providers, do you carry stuff with you, so when you are out doing normal life Bussiness and decide to take an appointment while your on that side of town or whatever?

I have to admit, one of the likes about most of the agencies (Asian and Spanish), the ladies will look nice, smell nice.

I don't want to hear, well everyone can't be ready at all times. Then don't accept a request. Providers take time to have nice photos to draw the Bussiness. They take time to find 10-15 yr old photos to put in their showcase.

Now to those providers who do show up as expected or even more than, I do suggest a tip. Originally Posted by Lustnotlove

If I'm TOFTT with a BP chick at her incall and she answers the door looking nothing like her pics...And take off. Originally Posted by enderwiggin

I walked on a BP TOFTT B&S a few days ago. I was supposed to meet a tall, slim, shapely Asian girl but got a dumpy white friend/co-worker/teammate instead. When about to leave, she seemed to get some attitude but I reminded her that I had requested the Asian girl in pics. The thought of giving any compensation never crossed my mind.

I think if you enough guts to do an outcall to your residence you should let a lady know ur expectations first. Some ladies do dress down on purpose to not draw any attention ijs

I read a post where Still Looking takes a print of pics to the appt, if she doesn't look like advertised, tell her she is a fraud and leave. Don't give her jackshit.

Take a copy of the ad with the picture with you and if it is not her.... Then give it to her and say when she shows up call me.

Do you really want her to walk up to your door looking like a hooker? It would make me popular with the guys on the cul-de-sac.

For me the answer is somewhere between jackshit and half her rate, depending. If I'm TOFTT with a BP chick at her incall and she answers the door looking nothing like her pics, I'll say something like "You're not my Aunt Eloise." or "Sorry, wrong room." And take off. Alot of them use that trick of hiding behind the door until you're all the way in the room before revealing herself. Wait for them to get away from the door before executing this maneuver. I've had a girl try to block me from leaving. You damn sure don't want to get into a physical altercation with one of these girls. Worst that happens with this technique is she tells her pimp she lost a trick and he comes out to the parking lot looking for you. Odds are you're long gone before then. Sorry, but I'm of the philosophy that if they're going to lie about what they look like, I'm going to lie about paying them.

I've only had to tell an outcall that I wasn't happy and didn't want the appointment one time. She had clearly lied about her age by a couple decades and wrinkles make my penis soft. I was honest about it without being a dick and asked if I could just compensate her for her time and gas. She countered with the whole fee and we dickered a bit, finally settling on half and me feeling stupid and resentful. I still think it was the right move though because she knew where I lived and had the ability to start all kinds of problems for me with neighbors, theft, vandalism, etc. Basically, she could have brought unwanted attention to me. I saw a couple hundred then as being alot cheaper than the potential thousands she could have cost me later. Originally Posted by enderwiggin

I fell dirty for agreeing with you here because you say shit like this:

And when she doesn't comply because you're 5 of 6 appointments that day, she's lazy/forgetful, or her schoolgirl outfit still has cum-stains from the last guy? Originally Posted by enderwiggin

But I agree with your first statement wholeheartedly.

95% of the time I am date-ready I mean I would NEVER where SWEATS! EVER!

IDK I am just different, and I dress for several occasions. I also keep a pair of heels in my car and always wear sexy lingerie underneath & honestly tend to keep some extra panties with me LOL IDK I'm a lil weird I guess.

But the last thing anyone would ever get to say is I looked a hot ass mess. I feel like ladies should always be prepared for ANYTHING.

EVEN at my 5AM appointments I look the same way I would as if it were 5PM. Showered, hair done/make-up (weither it's only mascara & lip) I am in great appearance.

I would say $50 minimum for a cancelled appointment due to whatever the reason. Only because of time involved needing accountability.

BUT IDK about requesting more time to get ready-A lot of times the guys are impatient. I personally take whatever time I am given to do what I need to. (I try NOT to be a pain to meet) I aim to be very flexible.

BUT Ultimately it is up to YOU to set EXPECTATIONS. Because A LOT of providers are NOT as attentive/know how they should present themselves.

It's good to know a few providers take pride.

I've only had to tell an outcall that I wasn't happy and didn't want the appointment one time. She had clearly lied about her age by a couple decades and wrinkles make my penis soft. I was honest about it without being a dick and asked if I could just compensate her for her time and gas. She countered with the whole fee and we dickered a bit, finally settling on half and me feeling stupid and resentful. Originally Posted by enderwiggin

Rightfully so.