I can live with a little bit of stubble what I don't like is not being too fresh downstairs or when they have on way too much perfume. I always make sure I'm freshly showered but never wear any cologne. I've had several providers comment they prefer the smell of soap over cologne.
I'd much rather fresh soap in your shower or if you use mine... aftershave is OK sprinkled maybe on your shirt but I don't want to taste it on your neck!
As far as stubble.... well I've discovered something I never knew about myself before.
If a man has a bit of stubble on his chin yes it's abrasive when we are cheek to cheek BUT...
It feels incredible on my girl south of the border.
I do prefer his whiskers be trimmed or gone south off his border as well, not a must but I'll be a much more enthusiastic visitor down there!