In your opinion, who's responsibity is it?

I know... I will just get a damn parking meter and hand out tickets when time is up, lol!

I think my expectations of others' may be too high! Originally Posted by Scarlett Rossi

I agree 100%!! I know you are one who does not like to think like this, but anyway I hate to say it too. but frankly I trust NO ONE I meet off of this site and really prefer to keep it all business, been burned WAY to many times!!! I have made a couple of buddies at best...

I feel time is very valuable and although I do not wear a watch or bring my phone into sessions I look for a clock when I enter to see the time and typically I am done right on time. Now if conversation is good then I may stay a few min afterwards to chat a little. I try my best to respect others time although I have felt rushed before and that is a horrible feeling. Ex. I got an hour from a couple of providers once and 30 min into it I climax and she gets up and starts putting her clothes on and walking towards the door! Wait didn't I pay for the hour? But I don't mention this because I don't like confrontation so I get dressed and leave. I just know I won't be seeing her again. Time does fly when you having fun but 3, 2, or even 1, hour is way too much if only an hour was agreed.

You may even ask around the 1.5 time if they want to go ahead and get the 2 hr rate in a polite tone then I am sure they will get out lol.

Sigh.. the wretched grey areas of our lives. I personally think it's both parties responsibility but you should take the reins if you get off track. Don't be scared to speak up a little.

I don't think there is anything wrong when the time is up for the girl to get up and start cleaning up.

I don't have a watch etc, but I have a feeling when the time is getting close and will ask how we are doing on time. If the girl says there's no problem on time, then I leave it up to her to decide when it is time to go. If she says only a few minutes left, then I take that a que to start getting up.

Yea, I should have said something after the initial agreed upon time!! I just assumed, because most gentlemen that have stayed that much over have always paid. Assumptions sure have a way of getting us in sticky situations! Lesson learned.
No biggie. Thanks for the input, people.

Still think the parking meter is a good idea!!

Parking meter would work. Remember what they say when you ASSUME something.

10 or 15 minutes is a very nice ending to an appointment. If it goes beyond 30 minutes that is excess. If that happened to me I know I wouldn't have extra cash for immediate compensation, but I would assure the girl I would make it right next time.

The bottom line for me is, the guy makes the appointment for a certain amount of time, and the girl agrees to see him for that amount of time. If the time goes over, the guy has a responsibility to make it right. IMHO. The girl could have forced the issue at some point, but the responsibility is his.

Sigh.. the wretched grey areas of our lives. I personally think it's both parties responsibility but you should take the reins if you get off track. Don't be scared to speak up a little. Originally Posted by Tracy Auburn

+1

I have experienced overtime (< 30 minutes) where I thought it was a mutual decision only to be chastised later; and a situation where I was encouraged not to leave many times after the scheduled time had passed.

Hours of unwanted overtime is callous and warrants taking the reins and whip if necessary.

This has happened to me a lot lately and I am just curious to know what you guys think. I do my best to take care of my guys and want to please, but lately I feel that has been taken advantage of.

If you come to an appointment and stay (way over) your time, do you compensate the lady for the extra time you stayed?

If I ask for the additional time, as in, "If you don't have anyone scheduled after me I would love to stay another hour" then I would. As in we both get caught up in the happenings and/or conversation and oooops..... it's been an hour extra,.,,, No.... You are the professional. Remind me when it is time unless a lot of my time was wasted in conversation upon arrival.

I am not talking about 10 to 20 or even 30 minutes here. I am talking over an hour and beyond. My clients are NOT stupid. T

Also, if I am chatty, I do not factor that into my hourly rate. I do not count it. That usually means I am enjoying myself immensely & do not mind. I will even tell a man so. So this not the issue for me.

Let me just say, I am no clock watcher to begin with. I like to have fun and let things happen organically, but I also do not like my time taken advantage of either. No one does. It seems like quite a delicate balancing act lately.

I clearly have it on my ettique page that I feel it is a man's responsibility to keep up with his time.

Don't assume we read that shit. Most guys think.... "boobies... pretty..me fuck..."

My reasoning for this is that we are not supposed to discuss money. I hate discussing money. It is a mood killer and can also get you into trouble, in more ways than one.

Like I said, I really do not care about 10 to 20 minutes here or there or if I initiate a conversation, I do not count that...BUT over staying by as much as hr or two even 3 and saying oh sorry I only brought the original donation amount, for example, when you know you are way over staying, is just bad form.

Most of the gentleman that see me do their research on me and know what to expect. They are pretty bright people, so I can not help but feel my time has been taken advantage of lately. Perhaps

Have I said something to the client(s)? Yes, but it is a very akward position to be in.

I hate to rush and don't like watching the clock. It is a date, but at the same time... their are rates and boundaries for a reason.

Thoughts anyone? Originally Posted by Scarlett Rossi

Be a Pro.

+1

I have experienced overtime (< 30 minutes) where I thought it was a mutual decision only to be chastised later; and a situation where I was encouraged not to leave many times after the scheduled time had passed.

If I encouraged someone to stay or voiced it was okay than it's okay. I would not take issue. That is just silly.

Hours of unwanted overtime is callous and warrants taking the reins and whip if necessary. Originally Posted by saustin

Please excuse me if this sounds elitist or something, but I just figure a gent knows what he is doing when he is a seasoned
hobbyist patronizing a professional(veteran). You know the rates for her time, you have studied her reviews, posts, comments etc. So, is it wrong of me to assume you have read my policies or website? If the lady does not ask you to stay or say oh it's okay after the initial time is agreed upon, it's just not cool to stay an hour or two over time and not pay or make it a point to make it right somehow asap.

At the same time, shame on me for assuming and not making sure after the agreed time had passed over hh or so.

It really does go both ways when dealing with grey areas, I suppose.

Okay, I am tired of talking about this now, lol! I've droned on long enough. You guys have had some insightful things to say and different perspectives to add.

Thanks again. Yall carry on, if you like. I am going to take a nap and then go pro with a parking meter!

Laterz

Not sure i understand this. 10-20 min is one thing but an hour longer? What would provoke this? Maybe talking, great long sex, drinks. There has to be a reason. Hmmmmmm

Ah gots an idear. How about yew play ONE O' MAH RECORDS thet ya still got when ya git ready ta knock boots and when it's dun a-playin' ya tell tha rascal thet it's time to adios.

Scarlett I take it upon myself to watch the clock as I don't like the lady doing it for the reasons you mentioned. I remember in my extra hot session with 3 of you and two Sybians, round 2 was offered which I almost passed on until I saw the clock. After that I was so worried we went way over as it seemed that way. I have to say as a guy when we get extra time or if that hour seems like 2 hours we feel so very special. Turned out I was right on my hour when I left and I couldn't believe it because it felt like 2 hours. The only reason it felt this way was because you all were so cool about it like we were just friends hanging out having a sexy time- Thanks for the wonderful attitude and time spent.

Ah gots an idear. How about yew play ONE O' MAH RECORDS thet ya still got when ya git ready ta knock boots and when it's dun a-playin' ya tell tha rascal thet it's time to adios. Originally Posted by David.Douchehurst

^^^WIN! That's a pretty good way of keeping track of time