Do you prefer/use the term Fucking or Making Love before or during a session and how much does Verbal exchanges in a session play a factor in your enjoyment of a Session or your Technique?

OMG...Fucking and MORE fucking.
I am a bit of a voyeur, so I like her to ask the guy "F me." Never, make love to me.
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It may be "just sex" to you because it's an everyday, or perhaps several-times-a-day, experience for you. To some guys with youth and looks, or more than enough money, perhaps it's "just sex," too. But as a guy who eats lunch at his desk partly so he can have more than one date a month with a friend-for-an-hour (and again, speaking only for myself but hoping that others feel the same), I can tell you that I have a very different perspective. "Just sex" is what I do in my office after my co-workers leave.

I get that you might not want to call it "making love." But the ability to spend an hour intertwined with the body of a beautiful young woman who unleashes in you feelings that you never had or forgot about a long time ago, can be, with the right partner a beautiful thing. Even if you're yelling "fuck me" so loudly that the folks next door are calling to complain, calling what you're doing "just sex" or even "fucking" describes only the physical component and doesn't do justice to the feelings that the activity can inspire.

One of the mysteries of the hobby is how the good ones can take what for them is that everyday or several-times-a-day experience and completely satisfy the client's need for a life-affirming experience. Originally Posted by Sir Lancehernot
o.O clearly I need to find me a woman

I always find it funny when guys imply a ladies must be getting it several times a day. who are these woman who are getting it several times a day and where can I find them? it's been 10 days since I last entertained and before that 3months....so sex is not an "everyday" thing to me. it's more like yay I get to have sex today!

but let me add to your perspective what you're talking about is a woman's ability to up the endorphin's in you're brain that makes you feel all delirious and what not,at the end of a date you have to remind yourself it's just sex or you'll let those feelings she made you feel get to you; and they will get you in trouble.

besides that natural high and elated feeling, you can achieve through other things outside of sex so it's actually not that special. I know total buzz kill right?

again making love IMO is only accomplished between two people who are in love with each other.

I remember one friday back in like September Had a date GREAT SEX, got paid, and went out and bought concert tickets to a band I really wanted to see. I was SO high on endorphins basking in the afterglow Best Day EVER. I mean sex,money, and rock and roll what more can a girl ask for right? Made. My. Year. I really wanted those concert tickets and my date totally made me cum I was in HEAVEN. it's the simple things in life really.

there's no shame in acknowledging it for what is is and it shouldn't imply like I suspect you think it does that it's any less exciting or special or what the fuck ever because you do acknowledge what it is.

and at the end of day this post question was what term for it do you prefer to use fucking or making love?

I prefer to be particle about i it can be as great, passionate, life affirming as you want BUT it is still sex because if you let it be more then that those feelings will lead to thoughts that take you down a path that will get you in to trouble in this hobby world. I don't say "it just sex" because I've supposedly had SO much that it doesn't mean anything to me anymore or lost it's spark I SAY it's "just sex" because that's what keep you grounded.

anyways I gotta go to class...talk about your total buzz kill. Algebra even the horror. i mean really i should scrap this whole college thing and get training to be an EMT.
I know that "talking dirty" is a total plus...I have a very dirty mouth. We all need to get F*cked sometimes.
Dirty talk is full on super sexy! Even my SO is learning about the benefits of "fuck me:"

Seriously I can be naked with the hottest provider and nothing will happen. An average looking provider who can grab my cock get it slobbering wet and say fuck me Tony.... Is gonna get fucked.

Either way I'm in for the fee but one really satisfies and makes me want more.

Dirty talk, lube, and some naughty play will get me to do amazing things.

Best 2nd session ever.... The first one she "fucked" me hard. On the 2nd she did the wet sloppy BBBJ and started to fuck me again, but then I said no I'm gonna fuck you. And I did....

For me a session can go from zero to 2+ pops in an hour and it has everything to do with her and her desires.

Fuck me! Cum in my mouth! Cum on my ass! Fuck me in the ass! Fuck me harder! Harder! Faster! Fuck me from behind! Cum for me baby! All of these dirty commands will work for me. I find dirty talk removes the inhibitions and gets me 100% focused on the moment, and ultimately that is what I seek. I want to forget everything even if its for just 2 minutes of our time together. To me its a priceless gift only the best providers can give.

This is the thing I seek and rarely find. I want wild uninhibited full on lust even if its just a few moments. The things said in those moments..... Can be pretty down and dirty.

That said I try to be a sweet gentleman all the time, and I'm not going to hurt anyone.

And I'm still looking for a lady that wants to do this once a month or so.... It's fun.
Doesn't matter. I can't talk with my mouth full.
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If i'm hitting it right i'll get a "high five for sexy time'
They "make love" in movies with Julia Roberts and on Twlight. In the real world, WE FUCK!!!

There's absolutely NOTHING hotter than sexxy white chick saying, "Give me that fucking black cock!!"

Whoops...I think I soiled myself....

Haaaaaaaa
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"Just sex" is what I do in my office after my co-workers leave. Originally Posted by Sir Lancehernot
Now THAT's funny right there!

BTW, my co-workers NEVER leave. Damn them!!
Haaaaaa
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Depends on my mood and the situation, both get the proper response and obligatory 'Yes Mam! I get to pick the hole this time....."

If its a relaxed time a come here and make love to me..... goes a long way. But a grab you by the back of the head, deep tongue thrashing kiss and smoldering 'come and fuck me....' will get the blood pumpin..
Still my favorite Dirty talking ever!!


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  • 01-28-2014, 01:06 AM
Nobody that meets on this board is making love. They are making a transaction.
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I want you to transact me harder.
Don't stop until you hear the change hitting the floor.
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[COLOR="Black"][SIZE="4"][FONT="Georgia"]o.O clearly I need to find me a woman

I always find it funny when guys imply a ladies must be getting it several times a day. who are these woman who are getting it several times a day and where can I find them? it's been 10 days since I last entertained and before that 3months....so sex is not an "everyday" thing to me. it's more like yay I get to have sex today!
Originally Posted by Secret_Amore
Requote: O clearly I need to find me a woman.

No, what you need to do is bring your beautiful, black, sexy self to Dallas before I retire within the next month and let me FUCK YOU in an overnight session!!!

Unbelievable, to me, a very attractive, articulate, intelligent AA woman has only gotten LAID/FUCKED/MADE LOVED TO 'twice' in the last 3.5 months...What the Fuck/Sex/Make Love is wrong with the Fucktards in Austin??!!

I would love to kiss you softly when you walked into the 4-5 star Hotel Outcall I would get, have your favorite drink ready. We would relax on the sofa in the suite and talk for as long as we desire. No rush, we have all day or night together (you may prefer a daytime extended session over an overnight. I would accommodate you). Eventually, I will steer the small talk, which we are enjoying immensely and ASK if I can kiss you? You WILL say yes. I will set my glass on the sofa/coffee table in front of us then I will slowly take yours from you and place it on the table. I will then look you deeply in your beautiful, dark eyes, brush your cheek softly with the back of my hand, maybe softly with my fingers touch your hair and brush it back over your ear. Then, softly, gently pull your head closer to mine and kiss you, softly, gently, then whisper in your ear, "I'm in no rush tonight and in a little while I'm going to eat your pussy. What happens after that is up to US."

I will then pickup up your glass and hand it back to you, softly, gently. I will pick up my glass and we will toast to a very nice seductive kiss.

We will talk and drink for as long as we need to, then I will set our drinks down again and we will kiss a little more passionately and deeply and longer. My right hand will lightly cup your left, big, soft breast. I will whisper in your ear some things, then I will kiss you and slowly work my hand down your body till I eventually slowly rub on your pussy while we kiss.

When the time is right I will get on my knees in front of you and raise your ass up and hopefully you showed up without any panties on. If you have panties on no problem I will slowly, teasingly pull them off. I will slowly, patiently make my way to your wet, brown on the outside, pink on the inside, pussy and tease it with soft licks. Eventually I will pickup the pace as you get more turned on and I tell you how good your pussy tastes because IT DOES. You WILL probably start pulling my hair or my head as your hips start bucking and you grind your pussy on my mouth till you cum, HARD.

I will slowly stand up and pull you up and whisper in your ear, "Now I want to go to the bedroom and make love to/fuck you. I will lead you by the hand to the bedroom where I undress you standing up. I kneel down and I eat your pussy some more just for a short time cupping your big, large areolaed breasts or grabbing your beautiful ass.

Then we softly get on the bed and we make love/fuck/have sex till we both are spent. Probably after 2 or 3 hours on the bed. I have fucked you/had sex/made love to your mouth, your pussy and maybe your big, brown, soft round ass. Your pussy is spent, pulsing, throbbing. My legs are rubbery, spent. I can not get another erection because you have ridden me cowgirl while your big soft titties bounced or softly or firmly cupped them. You have fucked/made love to me kneeling in doggie, with your hands on the wall or headboard from behind, maybe standing in front of the dresser mirror with your big titties swaying and your elbows pulled back. You have sucked me off once just the way I like it, made me cum while riding me cowgirl or while I FUCKED YOU surfboard in your tight BROWN, ASS.

We will shower together or draw the garden-sized bath tub and washed each other. Then, we will sleep. One of us will eventually wake up and start teasing the other one and we will kiss and then 69 till we both cum, me in your mouth, you on my mouth, hopefully at the same time.

We will go back to sleep and play some more after a longer sleep and before we part.

We will have room service breakfast before we part, too.

You will leave tingly and I will kick back on the bed and smile because it was GOOD, maybe GREAT, maybe one of the best FUCKS/LAYS/SEX I have ever had or top tennish. Don't know, don't really care, all I really know is WE BOTH KNOW IT WAS GOOD!!!

Now tell me, Why The Fuck Do You Need A Woman again?

Get in touch with me (my Premium Access just went down, time to write another review) and we'll discuss how many concert tickets you want, but I won't pay for travel time to Dallas.