Ohhh to GFE or not to GFE...

I also think GFE is more than just a checklist of menu items. It also has to do with attitude. It is about making the guy feel like he is the most important man in the world, even if temporarily.

It has to be a combination of the two. IMHO Originally Posted by Fletchlives

You are right, IoP and genuine enthusiasm are vital to any GFE encounter.

PSE could include all the activities listed in my earlier post, you are most likely just too busy to be concerned with IoP and sincerity as you jump from one activity to the other. Not my thing.

Bring genuine GFE to the sessions, with sincere IOP, and your phone will not stop ringing.

I agree Addison. While I do enjoy Greek for me it doesn't have to be included to be PSE. It would just be the cherry on top. Attitude is the key again. It sets the tone for the session. PSE is more of a sport fuck. Less intimacy and just purely carnal and animal.

For me you can have a GFE session that includes activities such as Greek and/or snowballing. For example if a girl had your load in her mouth does she come up and sensually kiss you as it swirls around in between your tongues or does she come up and spit it in your mouth. A bit extreme but you get the point.

That's my 2 cents. Obviously this is a YMMV type of thing. There are clearly differing opinions.

For example if a girl had your load in her mouth does she come up and sensually kiss you as it swirls around in between your tongues or does she come up and spit it in your mouth.

That's my 2 cents. Obviously this is a YMMV type of thing. Originally Posted by Fletchlives

Fletch -- I do believe that you have more clearly described the term "YMMV" than I have ever seen before on the Boards. My choice would be for the former aspects of snowballing since I am a GFE+ kind of guy who appreciate IoP. Not much IoP with the spit and go version.

I wonder how may ladies provide Snowballing as it is not something that I often see discussed or listed on most eccie showcases.

Ladies, Please PM me if you are in Austin and you do. I would like to know more about this.

Addison,
you have a unique approach to what you do so well ... Lure us in with GFE and then take us to places we have only dreamed about in our wildest fantasies. Oh my, you are FUNtastic !!!

And Monk, as usual, has the correct hint: reflect it on your P411 account, and the reviews here should speak for themselves as well.

If you do consider a name change, then you already know what it should be. What you are known by your email name: AddisonC**z ... so true !!!

I have always thought of you as AddisionGFE+, and the PLUS is the "safe" yet "wild" beyond GFE you took me.

Whatever handle you might change to, won't matter to me, I'll know I'll have a CUMtastic time with you !!!

I consider GFE to be LFK, DFK, BBBJ, DATY, MPFS (CG, ACG, RCG) and missionary. Add in K9, TUMA, FIV, CIM, NQNS, and MSOG and you get GFE+.

PSE includes all above and Greek, snowballing, toys and DP.

Just my definitions, others may say otherwise, I expect.

BB Originally Posted by BugleBoy

hmmmm.... if I don't do CIM or NQNS, can I still be GFE+?

I think your question is a good one love. I think you gotta think about where you are going with your business model and if you think you need a "better" name to reflect it, then by all means! I was going by Tracy and one of my early clients gave me the last name of Auburn because of my hair. Easy way to distinguish me from other Tracys. Good luck on whatever you choose!

hmmmm.... if I don't do CIM or NQNS, can I still be GFE+? Originally Posted by Tracy Auburn

Not in my book, but GFE is good, no?

GFE, PSE, yes DFK, no DFK, yes Greek, no Greek… Trying to define PSE reminds me of that Indian parable of the blind men describing an elephant. “PSE” is like the word “carnal” which I like to use to describe women and which I have used to describe you, Addison.

“Carnal?” I’ll use the definition offered by my friend awl4knot, a hobbyist from back east. “There are many gloriously debauched, decadent, horny, lewd, louche, lustful, saucy, sexy, slatternly, slutty and even voracious women, but … a truly carnal women is a rare find. In my view, carnality involves a special internal heat and muskiness that creates the mutuality and reciprocity of pleasure that makes for a truly memorable and deeply moving sexual experience. It is sort of like a great PSE with soul, involvement, and emotional timbre.”

Addison, you are PSE. And you are carnal. And you are a rare find.

Monk

Addison, you are PSE. And you are carnal. And you are a rare find.
Originally Posted by Monk Rasputin

AMEN !

GFE has usually meant most activities, excluding greek and CIM. The attitude point is where things start to go PSE. For example, there is BLS and there is slow, wet, sensual while giving an equally sensual, wet HJ, looking up with your seductive eyes. Moving to slow dripping wet BBBJ. Then sliding down using your whole tongue (not just the tip) to more BLS dripping down to your ass and having it slowly licked around the rim, occasionally sliding your tongue in and out. See the difference?. For me, (may be an age thing) I seek the passion, sensuality and attention. I want the woman's hands all over me in a very slow, deliberate, sensual way. That is what was lacking in my relationship.That is what got me in the hobby to begin with. Menopause is a REAL game changer!