Strip tease in my eyes is a little different than a strip dance. Correct me if I am wrong taking your clothes off in a sexy manner can be very sexy and get the mood going pretty fast. Strip dance is giving a lap dance and if you are not comfortable doing a lap dance ie. can't dance have two left feet, or your just not comfortable then please do not try and it would be respected. But I think a lot of guys like a little tease knowing they are going to be able to do more.
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