Very Confusing To Me

great advice!!!!

As an older gent myself, I second Charliec comments about pleasing the providers I see, hell that's half the fun of the experience. By all means tell me what pleases you and I'll do my best to ensure you also have fun.

SThe older gentlemen will understand my confusion about seeing non-gfe providers. I will be 65 on Oct.1st, therefore I think that classifies as being older. I also love for the provider to reach the summit. I enjoy the passion, and the provider making me think she enjoys it also. Back on topic though, the gf in gfe stands for girl friend, at least thats my take on it. I doubt there are many guys out there, young or old, that had a girlfriend that wouldnt kiss them. Now there may be a few that wouldnt give a bj, thats not uncommon for guys my age, too have been associated with girls like that. I grew up in a different time. When I am with a lady, her pleasure is of utmost importance too me, as I have never had a provider get me too the summit. It has nothing too do with erection problems either, it just doesnt happen. Thus this is why gfe is so important too me. Therefore my confusion.

Ranch the reason I believe is because some men feel that maybe with out the kissing and extra play time, isn't a bad thing. Some prefer non gfe moments.
I get that some guys prefer non gfe even if i offer because it's not what they want!

As I have stated call me strange, but thats just me. I cant imagine paying, 200 to 250 for non gfe. I guess I will always be confused with that, but its ok. My take on it is, if you dont want the gfe, why do you want the lady. Just take care of it in the bath room. Thats was kinda a joke.

Let me add one more thing, then I will be through with this. This has nothing too do with the guys that are ok with non-gfe. If that is what your looking for then more power to you. Everyone has different desires, and that I do understand. I guess in the whole realm of things, its really not that important, I was just curious, and as I said confused. Thats ok too, I will just stay confused.

im new here and this is my first post...but maybe some men do not want gfe and think more about safety. i have only played a few times, but i wasnt lucky enuf to have been with someone i even wanted to kiss.

Ok, before I get into a misunderstanding here, let me clear something up. I was in no way talking about what a lady charges for her services. Thats her business not mine. I was not singleling "any" lady out. I am fully aware ladies charge what the market will bear. My "only confusion" is why would a guy see a lady that isnt gfe, for the same price of a lady that is gfe. This is based on looks and board personality being equal or close to equal. Remember im old, and have seen many ladies in my time. This is just a personal state of confusion, that just doesnt make sense too me, and as I have said many times, thats just me. Thank you all for your responses. Call me strange if you want, but I can get all the non-gfe I want at home. Originally Posted by Ranchhand

but i wasnt lucky enuf to have been with someone i even wanted to kiss. Originally Posted by bubbaJay

awww...thats no bueno

Guys have preferences. If the girl of their dreams is only offering cbj and mish they will still pay what she is asking and meet her. That is of course not a real GFE session. I think it has a lot to do with attitude. Also some guys think a lady has low prices because there is something wrong with her which is not true all the time.

I think I understand where Ranchhands confusion may be, please correct me if I am wrong, why would a guy pay 200 -250 to do mish and cbj, pop and go home when you can pay that same amount and for some one and kiss, cuddle, talk, have foreplay and the whole shabang.

Like MsPrettiKitti, I also do not advertise GFE. Thats not to mean that I do not provide alot of the services a provider who is GFE offer. I come across providers who like myself who enjoy a passionate encounter including kissing, dirty talk, foreplay, mutual oral, and really care about the quality of the experience. However, bbbj and bbfs is not openly offered on the menu for safety reasons.

I am relatively new to the hobby, however, the regulars that I have come to aquire and cater to are a niche market of men who enjoy the they can talk to me about damn near anything, and like to partake in DFK or LFK, necking, and an overall hot and passionate session, with an understanding that a provider may have many partners therefore, they (the hobbiest)
like the fact that i am protected with my partners. That is why they may pay 200 because they are receiving, as one of my clients put it "light GFE". Im sorry for rambling but theres my 2 cents.

Great post charliec...
I concur 100%. That's what it's all about. A two-way experience not just one-way.