My Response Regarding The Ditching Accusation Towards Me

I could be mistaken but I don't believe the issue of 100 dollars but the disrespect of ones time

And in a court of law what is that time worth at most if what he says is true which I doubt, at most, this is a 100 dollar claim plain and simple. You know why the mods will never have a ncns section because it be his word against hers.

I'm not sure what he said raises doubt in the validity of his post and why her response weighs so heavily in your mind that she has your support especially when you have met neither party.

I listen to people for a living and read a lot of their stuff well actually I write a lot of their stuff and human nature is such that You can decipher someone's mood from their writing styles and also it's just plain logic, you mean to tell me if someone stood you up, you wouldn't be pissed and ohh here is the kicker you are sane enough to call the provider and politely tell her you are going to post a no show review and ohh wait there is more ---you then after posting your not so flattering no show post, you keep contacting the same provider for an explanation or answer. My dear sir that is a tad bit too much in my book and hopefully in yours too

Personally
I've not been stood up too often, but when it does happen, no I do not post a NCNS or call the provider etc bc I want to avoid all the crap that goes along with posting a NCNS

You should also read his initial post. (if you didn't) The one where he didn't mention names and asked for advise. Several people in that thread advised him to contact her. I'm sure someone as well read as you might find a tad more enlightenment afterwards that could possibly sway your opinion... Maybe?

20 minutes for $100? Yep thats Cage.

Personally
I've not been stood up too often, but when it does happen, no I do not post a NCNS or call the provider etc bc I want to avoid all the crap that goes along with posting a NCNS Originally Posted by pwood

I have been stood up many times and well chuck it up to the game and move on.

20 minutes for $100? Yep thats Cage. Originally Posted by Bestman200600

wait i am confused, has cage tried to schedule with you???

no offense cage, i couldn't resist...the quoted statement sounds too much like a provider's 2nd handle

Macbeth, you write for a living? ...Really?

Macbeth, you write for a living? ...Really? Originally Posted by luv2luv

Haha again where did I say I write for a living... when and how do you equate my statement that I write alot of their stuff to I write for a living. Omg Really?

Fletch I didn't know you were gay......................

You better get in line, fletch is in demand.

I have been stood up many times and well chuck it up to the game and move on. Originally Posted by macbeth1000

My comments have nothing to do with Cindy or Cage as those two are the only ones that really know what happened and their perspectives are their own and probably don't see it the same way.

I have a problem with "chuck (sic) it up to the game".
If I were a good provider and I read some of these type comments it would piss me off.
There are many professional providers that use this site that take pride in their TCB skills. They realize that a client's time can be as valuable as their money and sometimes even more. Vacation days, long drive times, fake dr. appointments, timing the session with other events, rescheduling meetings, and a million other things. Nobody has time for "the game". By nobody I mean both client and provider and I know good and well that providers get more than their fair share of nonsense.

If I wanted to play games I would take my chances on BP. I use this site and P411 exclusively so that I can minimize my risks....time, money, violence, theft, ncns, and whatever other risks are out there.

I have found that things like this can be just as helpful as a review that simply goes thru a list of positions....Yay! you did surfboard...good for you....but how does that help me? Certain issues like this can be brought up and a lot can be said about how the issue is handled by both. This site is about information and the more the better.

Again this stupid rant of mine really isn't about this particular situation but more of a "stuff happens so stfu and don't say anything" mentality.

I understand your frustration however I learnt a long time ago in my 10 plus years of hobbying that this thing isn't really legal so I already have a lot of other things to stress about and this isn't going to be one of them. Don't take things to seriously and you will live longer