Screening~Why are some of us screening nazis?

And people might not like the X-ray machine and choose to stay home. Originally Posted by bulls on parade

Or maybe they will develop a fetish for the TSA cavity search?!

Or maybe they will choose to stay home and not get to fly and join the mile high club. That's okay. I saved them money and time! I'll just stick with my frequent flyers!

Johnny, if you steal all the White Russian's, I can't wear The Dude costume with a straight face!

Victoria is straight up ninja! She just looks all sweet and innocent. This chick has back up plans. Watch the fuck out, lol!


I shudder just thinking of going back in that closet. Please no, Victoria. I'll be good!! I promise!

Oh, Claire!!

You have The Dude costume? I'll bring white russians for that.

I believe that since this is a business, as a provider I have the right to choose with whom I do business with.

If'n Ah screened better Ah'd prolly still have mah records.

If'n Ah screened better Ah'd prolly still have mah records. Originally Posted by David.Douchehurst

Those records are looooooong gone, lol.

Victoria is straight up ninja! She just looks all sweet and innocent. This chick has back up plans. Watch the fuck out, lol!


I shudder just thinking of going back in that closet. Please no, Victoria. I'll be good!! I promise!

Oh, Claire!! Originally Posted by Scarlett Rossi

They never see me coming,,,,:do natello:

I promise ...No more closest I gonna have a tree house built..with a padded velcrow wall and bouncy room...

Those records are looooooong gone, lol. Originally Posted by Claire She Blows

Schadenfreude much, missy?

White Russians. TFF!

I took matters into my own hands this morning and uhh...banished The White Russians from The Kremlin. Hehe!

1) Ever had a gun aimed at your head? Yup!

2) Ever been raped? Can't rape the willing

3) Ever been held hostage? Almost. Fortunately had Chuck Norris and Delta Force on standby

4) Ever been outed?Nope. I'm always trying to get in-ned

5) Ever have a crazy ex? Crazy ex what?

6) Ever had a stalker? Hell yes! More than I'd like to admit.

7) Ever had family or an important real world job? I thinck all of us had family. My job is important. It helps keep the wrinkles out of my belly

8) Ever had your kids taken away? I haven't got any kids, fortunately...fortunate because I have reason to believe that the souls of my unborn grandchildren were sucked out of me during a unbeeeevable bbbj. I shit you not.


9) Ever known of a friend getting murdered? Not "getting murdered", but have had friends who have been murdered...and hammered too!

10) Ever just say, " Damn, she is a mega bitch on the board. I bet she is worse in person?" I'm confident that I have never called anyone on this board a mega-bitch.

11) Ever been in session with someone who was a druggie or drunk? This is a trick question. Of course they're on one or the other..usually both...this is *me* that they're dealing with. No sober gal could tolerate me. Pfffft!

12) Ever say to yourself, " All money is NOT good money?" No. But I did learn that the difference between praying in a casino and praying in church is that in a casino, you mean it.

13) Ever thought that maybe we care about chemistry/compatibility as much or more than money? Chemistry? Yeah Science! Yo, Mr White.

14) Ever thought maybe she has a brain and is capable of seeing misogyny? Yeah, probably not, lol! How does a brain see misogyny? Isn't that ocular? Detect, I can understand, but seeing? not so much. So you are correct. Probably not.

15) Ever thought maybe she values her time and wants to spend it with someone who is going to treat her with the same respect she would show you? You got me on this one. Yes. This very thought crossed my mind, once.

Then I made some sort of WTF/Out-of-left-field/off-the-wall comment and ridicularity and hilarity ensued and she forgot all about that 'respectful' dude. Fun and laughter has that effect on people.


I am not saying these things have happened to me. These are just a few good reasons why some of us screen harder than others. Ijs in all seriousness, I don't have a problem with a provider's screening. I've found that the more comfortable a person is with an upcoming encounter, the better that encounter is likely to be. So knock yourself out and screen until your heart's content. They're all valid reasons and you owe no explanation.

But just as there are those providers who, in fact, screen harder, there are also some of us hobbyists who simply, bang harder,too. So I suppose it all works out.



xoxo,

The Screening Nazi

Regards,
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I'm just curious if some honesty can find it past all the screening excuses and support.....

Ladies..... After all the screening as described and for the reasons given......

Ever have it all go wrong anyway?

PT II....... How many times has it all gone right when screening was relaxed?

I really don't expect answers.......

I think screening is an illusion that gives ladies the needed sense of security to move through their days...... nothing more........ nothing less......

oh... it's also a source of revenue for those companies that found a way to capitalize on it....

. I just missed you. I didn't really wanna talk about screening. Hehe! I knew you would pop in for this thread, lol!
I mainly want to know that I am not going to be walking into a session with my ex or one of his friends.
The next concern is LE. After that, compatibility.

I turn down more than I see. IMO, what is the point of seeing some guy that pisses and moans about most of all the other ladies he has seen? I try to do my very best and like to please. If I do not think I can please him or I am not his type, I am probably going to say no. Saves us both time and him money.

Am I a fool for caring about my reputation? For being picky? Maybe? Maybe, I should just take the money, laughing to the bank, not caring what anyone says. I would sure have a lot more money, if I ran business like that, but I am a sensitive and prideful girl.

I don't like being picked apart in demeaning ways or being reduced to mere acronyms, so I avoid that. Yes, it's less money, but it is also less chance for bad experiences and hurt feelings/ego. That equals longer longevity in this business, for me. Just 2 more of my cents

I'm just curious if some honesty can find it past all the screening excuses and support.....

Ladies..... After all the screening as described and for the reasons given......

Ever have it all go wrong anyway? Never

PT II....... How many times has it all gone right when screening was relaxed?

I really don't expect answers.......

I think screening is an illusion that gives ladies the needed sense of security to move through their days...... nothing more........ nothing less......

oh... it's also a source of revenue for those companies that found a way to capitalize on it.... Originally Posted by Whispers

To answer your second question, I'll do so in two parts, because there are two types of screening.

Freedom: I've never been arrested, but know someone who was habitually arrested. Her excuse was that only 1 out of 10 calls was probably LE, and if you avoided that one, you should be okay. Her reasoning was borderline ignorant for refusing clients, and was one of those ladies that refused to go to certain hotels and areas of town. She once got arrested TWICE in two weeks. But this was/is her only job, and has never had a civilian job in her life. A lot of ladies are doing other things with their lives, or don't plan on doing this forever, so not taking excessive risks with their freedom is paramount.

Safety/chemistry: Knowing that you're not the police is just half of it. Because of my limited availability, I don't take same day appointments. I usually have anywhere from 3 days to a month sometimes to get to know new friends. I assess compatibility, understand what's needed of me besides the end result, and look for any behavior patterns that suggest that he is not suited for my company.

Let me turn this discussion to the gents for a second:

As a man who expects to be intimately close to a woman who does not know you, why wouldn't you want her to be as comfortable as she can be with you?

What is it do you think that we want from you, other than to get you in and out, with you happy and her safe? If you're worried about a hooker trying to have your babies, steal you/separate you from your SO, or extort money from you, you may need to evaluate your Companion selection process.

I know there are some ladies who don't know how to screen, and ask for some of the most ridiculous stuff. Real screening isn't nearly as invasive. You give screening information to strangers on a bus/airplane, Starbucks barristas, prospective clients, and random people in a bar. Why not give it to a lady who deserves not to go into an encounter with you not knowing if you're going to arrest her, rob her or kill her?

Illusion or no, don't you think we're worth that?

. I just missed you. I didn't really wanna talk about screening. Hehe! I knew you would pop in for this thread, lol! Originally Posted by Scarlett Rossi

Just Paint a W on a strong flashlight and shine it up into the sky if you need me darlin!... I'm around!

To answer your second question, I'll do so in two parts, because there are two types of screening.

Freedom: I've never been arrested, but know someone who was habitually arrested. Her excuse was that only 1 out of 10 calls was probably LE, and if you avoided that one, you should be okay.

I do not think screening would prevent an organized attempt by LE to circumvent it. They can "lie" as well as create fake counts on both sides of the equation to get their needed verifications.....


....... You give screening information to strangers on a bus/airplane, Starbucks barristas, prospective clients, and random people in a bar. Why not give it to a lady who deserves not to go into an encounter with you not knowing if you're going to arrest her, rob her or kill her?

Illusion or no, don't you think we're worth that? Originally Posted by Tiffani Jameson

No. I do not. Strangers on a bus or airplane, a starbucks barrista, prospective clients and random people in a bar are PROBABLY not engaged in an illegal activity as you and others like you are. The probability of YOU getting arrested and possibly wanting to trade information for leniency is great. It is of no concern to me at Starbucks.

Also the probability of you or one like you being mixed up with a pimp or having a BF much less stable than you might be is also a factor. You may not be the problem but what is shared with you could haunt someone because of someone close to you.

Now please do not think I am telling you NOT to do whatever you feel is right for you.

It's your business. Run it any way you like.

I just have a different view on the matter.

Ladies..... After all the screening as described and for the reasons given......

Ever have it all go wrong anyway?
Originally Posted by Whispers

Yes, at your party, no less. Went home with bruises and PTSD.

Yes, at your party, no less. Went home with bruises and PTSD. Originally Posted by Claire She Blows

Really Claire? At the Party? That's a pretty serious accusation to lay out there especially more than a month or two months after either of the events I hosted.

I recall no activity at either party that you attended that resulted in anyone being hurt in any manner. If you are referring to something that happened to you AFTER you left a party with someone you left the party with or met after the party please clarify as it is a pretty serious accusation to lay out there.

Any and every event I put together is done as a meet and greet and any business or hooking up conducted at an event is strictly taboo and people are warned against doing so,

Although I think you should clarify that nothing actually happened to you at either party you attended I am sorry to hear that you had a negative experience. Especially after screening a guy. Thank-you for providing an honest answer though to the question posted in this thread. It is a shame that screening did not protect you from a situation that went bad.