NCNS Pristy N

NC/NS suck for sure. But in this case it sounds like communication was made all be it after the fact. Who drives to the location with out a confirmation. If I haven't heard from the lady a couple of hrs in advance it's not an appt any more plain and simple. As for Pristy she's always been nothing but professional w me and I'm the same w her. I have a feeling if Citizen would've handled things differently. He would have gotten a lot better response from her and a very nice session...IJS
You'll have more luck w honey than salt

It was a 6:30 AM appointment and I had an hour drive. I should have called her at 4:30 in the morning? I started texting to see if she wanted coffee about the time I thought she would be getting out of the shower.

The other point here is that the client should not have to track down the provider with honey after being on the receiving end of a NCNS. In my mind if it happens, a NCNS report should be an assumption on the providers mind, and if she wants to retain a client and prevent a report, she needs to proactively approach the client with a cheery attitude and something to offer. Its the provider who dropped the ball.

That said, I did not demand/request anything of her, nor should any client demand recompense. The ones with good TCB skills will be smart enough to manage their business, and others won't.

Take a breath brother don't get all riled up. If your not getting a response by 530 save yourself the drive. Common sense goes along way...

Take a breath brother don't get all riled up. If your not getting a response by 530 save yourself the drive. Common sense goes along way... Originally Posted by cowboyking

Does replying to a post automatically mean someone is riled up? Lol, i'm sitting in a boring ass ops meeting listening to to people drone on about IT disaster recovery. And for the record i work 5 minutes from that incall, so common sense says I had to make the drive anyway.

So y get so bent you were already in the area. I'm just saying if you had been a little more understanding, you would've met a kick ass lady. Being nice will get you a long ways

So y get so bent you were already in the area. I'm just saying if you had been a little more understanding, you would've met a kick ass lady. Being nice will get you a long ways Originally Posted by cowboyking

Sorry, I wasn't trying to piss you off. You obviously have a relationship of some kind with her, so i'll let this be my last post on it as its now had enough bumps to satisfy me.

while I hate NCNS I also like providers that have a life outside of the hobby and don't stack up appointments like firewood. If you have kids, which she does, shit happens. Pristi probably won't make a top ten provider list with hundreds of 10 ratings on TER but she is a lot of fun to be with in and out of bed. Sorry you had a bad experience I'll beat her with a wet noodle for you. ;-)

Sex is like bridge, if you don't haver a good partner, you'd better have a good hand.

Sunrise appts are tough. You either get post party on the way home or not awake yet. Neither is pleasant. I've had good luck at 8 am, but not earlier than that.

everybody ncns why bitch bout it just makes ppl do it more.... Originally Posted by wynter_ice

Oh yea, is that how you feel about ncns?

I do know one thing, I sure would hate to see the shithole trailer park you crawled out from.

Well, I like her response. Ncns are more common than u would realize a d they suck coz someone cockblocked another appointment so to speak. However, in the world of of intimacy, once that initial feeling of attraction is lost and replaced by anger and disdain, it would do u well not to go through with the appointment and move on. Usually, I choke it up to the cost of hobbying that cannot be quantified. If u feel so bad about it, post, he said, she said, both r right and seem reasonable to me so this looks like a case of shit happens in hobbying and the lady and they guy both r headed down their different paths. Pristy, don't feel obligated to do anything more. Just be consistent is my advise. One ncns is not the end of the world. A pattern though.....to the OP, move on to the next in line. Happy hobbying.