- chellachella
- 03-04-2014, 06:57 PM
Eva, thats what I was wondering too. Good point. I would think the sugar baby thing gets more complicated. I am sure people can at times develop feelings for each other. Then what happens? It could end very bad with people getting hurt.
- lat
- 03-05-2014, 08:38 AM
- Guest103014
- 03-05-2014, 01:53 PM
I cant keep up with my PM box, and it is full again. Just email me atHey, just saw this - I'll send to your email. I had PM you hehe
chellaohchella@yahoo.com
I keep emptying out the other one but it fills up too quick, I give up lol
Greg I always say, I charge for the massage, not for friendship, and in my opinion when you start spending time out of the bedroom, sharing drinks, stories,etc. you become somewhat of friends. At least I know I do, maybe that isnt the norm for this biz, but Ive never claimed to be "normal" lol
Im not all about the money, as a matter of fact, Ive been packing up my house thinking I need to just call a charity that takes household items to come pick it up for a family that needs it. Some tell me to sell it, but I prefer to just pay it forward. Originally Posted by chellachella
- herbalist
- 03-05-2014, 02:24 PM
I have lots of experiences with Seeking Arrangement. There is a huge variety of women there.Great summary! I've encountered all 7 types and more, but the worst are the #4's. The absolute worst.
1) Some are providers: you can find out from the first or second email. Does not make sense to go with a provider through these sites. Better off here where you can find reviews and find exactly what you want.
2) Some are dancers: I tend to stay way from them. They are the biggest scammers. They usually tend to be the ones who are not cutting it anymore at the clubs. They are getting older, or got knocked up and lost their flat tummy. They are bitter and frustrated. They upsell, watch the time and overall not compassionate or fun to be with at all.
3) Some are older women who are bored or in financial trouble. These are great if you can find good looking one. They are far cheaper than any provider you would find here. You spend hours and hours together for very little. I am seeing one now and she is great) she is very attractive and sexy. She treats me as we are in a relationship. She is offering me her friends for a threesome
4) Some are older women but still living in the past thinking they are a "10". They tend to be very expensive, and I screen them off quickly.
5) Some are late 20s and 30s. These vary quite a bit. I once landed a full time, well educated girl that was unbelievable. In the evening she taught pole dancing. I can't tell you how toned her body was. I actually had no idea why she was into me. I am above average looks wise, very well educated, and fairly well off; and she liked my personality. I took her with me once to a conference and spend 4 days. That would have cost a gazilion dollar if she was a provider.
6) college girls. These also vary. I saw a student from Tulane once. She was barely 20. Her body was amazing. AMAZING. I saw her once a week where she stayed from 7 pm to midnight and sometimes she spent the night for a fraction of a fraction of the price of a provider. Landing these girls is difficult because they want to be attracted to you and look up to you.
7) time wasters: there are girls hired by the site itself. They are typically in small towns to boost the membership. I learned how to identify them. They drag and drag meeting in person.
I can write a book about sugar babies
- Arverni
- 03-06-2014, 04:19 PM
I did use SA for a very brief time. I was very detailed in what I was looking for and I posted pics and got LOTS of hits. In my profile - I listed that I wasn't interested in anything long term or short term - it would just be a one time thing unless it was so good I felt a need to come back for more.
One of the first ones that contacted me was a university student, I saw her pics (face obscured) - she definitely passed my test. She asked me how much I would pay and I told her (and I told her an amount EQUAL to what the high end ECCIE ladies get - cuz if she's in her early 20's and is willing to tryst with a guy in his 50's - plus be discreet about it - she deserves it.
She then gave me access to her "private" photos where I could see her face. When I looked at them ... I KNEW HER! She's a semi-regular at the bar I work at.
I immediately killed my profile and logged the fuck off. Killed the account then and there.
But that weekend she shows up at the bar ...
Takes me aside and says ... "Yeah I know ... it freaked you out but that's cool."
Then she tells me ... "Yes you are twice as old as me but really, I have seen you in this bar many times and I would love to do "something" for you."
So we made a date - and it was absolutely awesome. She was incredibly responsive - without going into details that much ... but shit happened with her that no girl can fake. No, she was not technically as good as an ECCIE lady - meaning she couldn't shoot from the 3 point line like the girls here can. But - in the end, all I ever really need is a hot girl that gets into it and enjoys it.
It could happen again I guess - the next time she needs some cash but she only really needed it this time to pay off a loan she owed. Since I paid her a premium rate - that did it for her.
Incredibly she thought initially I would pay her only like $300 for three hours - she got three times that. Worth every penny too ... I got up to leave at the three hour point and she asked me to stay and "hang out" ... so I did - for another three hours (no hanky-panky) but we talked about school a lot and she had a guitar she was trying to figure out so I taught her some chords.
So the reason I did it was to find a girl who wasn't in the business - who needed some cash and who might possibly enjoy the sex. To be honest - I can be a bit intimidated by experienced escorts - this girl was a complete newbie (almost) to sex and she had a great time. I didn't do it to find a cheaper option to escorts - I paid her the same as I would any ECCIE lady. And yes - we played the safe sex thing.
Will I do it again? With her - sure. But ...
On SA - you run a high risk of being discovered by someone you know. In this case - the gal who discovered me wasn't RELATED to me or someone I knew through family or work (Thank the LORD JESUS!).
It was a good experience for me though ... she told me ... "Hey I wanted to get laid and I could have let a guy pick me up for free or take you on and get paid for it!"
There are lots of university girls out there who need a little cash and don't mind seeing a nice guy to get it. But - I don't appear to be like most men on this board - I'm not looking for "cheaper" options and I don't look at it like the girl is a commodity. I want her to walk away feeling like she got an extremely good deal for just a little bit of effort. I don't want her to feel "dirty" or "used" or have something in her head that she has to deal with for the rest of her life or feel guilty about. So it was kind of like a normal "bar pickup" - I just laid cash down in this case. ECCIE girls are tough soldiers and they have the proper mindset for this business. Young university girls - not all of them do and you can do them more harm than good.
Like I said - I'll do it again with her - but no one else. Sure - I don't mind "picking up" a girl in the bar for free and I have done that. However, some girls - once the cash is put down - freak out and think they have crossed some invisible line where they have lost their souls forever and will never get it back. I don't understand that mindset - it is not logical but - it exists out there. She and I talked a lot about that.
One of the first ones that contacted me was a university student, I saw her pics (face obscured) - she definitely passed my test. She asked me how much I would pay and I told her (and I told her an amount EQUAL to what the high end ECCIE ladies get - cuz if she's in her early 20's and is willing to tryst with a guy in his 50's - plus be discreet about it - she deserves it.
She then gave me access to her "private" photos where I could see her face. When I looked at them ... I KNEW HER! She's a semi-regular at the bar I work at.
I immediately killed my profile and logged the fuck off. Killed the account then and there.
But that weekend she shows up at the bar ...
Takes me aside and says ... "Yeah I know ... it freaked you out but that's cool."
Then she tells me ... "Yes you are twice as old as me but really, I have seen you in this bar many times and I would love to do "something" for you."
So we made a date - and it was absolutely awesome. She was incredibly responsive - without going into details that much ... but shit happened with her that no girl can fake. No, she was not technically as good as an ECCIE lady - meaning she couldn't shoot from the 3 point line like the girls here can. But - in the end, all I ever really need is a hot girl that gets into it and enjoys it.
It could happen again I guess - the next time she needs some cash but she only really needed it this time to pay off a loan she owed. Since I paid her a premium rate - that did it for her.
Incredibly she thought initially I would pay her only like $300 for three hours - she got three times that. Worth every penny too ... I got up to leave at the three hour point and she asked me to stay and "hang out" ... so I did - for another three hours (no hanky-panky) but we talked about school a lot and she had a guitar she was trying to figure out so I taught her some chords.
So the reason I did it was to find a girl who wasn't in the business - who needed some cash and who might possibly enjoy the sex. To be honest - I can be a bit intimidated by experienced escorts - this girl was a complete newbie (almost) to sex and she had a great time. I didn't do it to find a cheaper option to escorts - I paid her the same as I would any ECCIE lady. And yes - we played the safe sex thing.
Will I do it again? With her - sure. But ...
On SA - you run a high risk of being discovered by someone you know. In this case - the gal who discovered me wasn't RELATED to me or someone I knew through family or work (Thank the LORD JESUS!).
It was a good experience for me though ... she told me ... "Hey I wanted to get laid and I could have let a guy pick me up for free or take you on and get paid for it!"
There are lots of university girls out there who need a little cash and don't mind seeing a nice guy to get it. But - I don't appear to be like most men on this board - I'm not looking for "cheaper" options and I don't look at it like the girl is a commodity. I want her to walk away feeling like she got an extremely good deal for just a little bit of effort. I don't want her to feel "dirty" or "used" or have something in her head that she has to deal with for the rest of her life or feel guilty about. So it was kind of like a normal "bar pickup" - I just laid cash down in this case. ECCIE girls are tough soldiers and they have the proper mindset for this business. Young university girls - not all of them do and you can do them more harm than good.
Like I said - I'll do it again with her - but no one else. Sure - I don't mind "picking up" a girl in the bar for free and I have done that. However, some girls - once the cash is put down - freak out and think they have crossed some invisible line where they have lost their souls forever and will never get it back. I don't understand that mindset - it is not logical but - it exists out there. She and I talked a lot about that.